Out of the blue

Hello I am glad all to see.

Spit on adversities, forget about affairs
Also remember you to be born by the woman!
So always unusual and different,
Thoughtful on weekdays, mysterious on a holiday,
A little cruel, a little artful,
a little crafty, but kind and nice.
Manage to be and strong, manage to be and weak,
Queen of the Universe and simply woman.
So be always young and beautiful,
In love, favourite and simply happy! ! ! !
And truly speak, the love shouldn't be looked for, she will find us

Hello Lady, I have a friend with the same problem as you. She too want a man and she too cannot stop looking. Even thought I and more with me had told her over and over again she will meet him when the time is right. I have no count on all the frogs she has kissed and still she has not found the right guy for her.
I tell to her, Stop looking, because men sort of sniff that you are desperate looking for a man. And they stay away, sad but true. I think if you stop looking so hard for the right guy, he will come to you sooner or later. My friend is still not willing to listen to me, so she has not found Mister Right yet, but the day she tells me she has stopped looking he will come, I am sure! The day she stop looking and let things flow he will show up. I have even had my tarot cards telling her this, but she is in my eyes a desperate woman who needs a man right now... and I still say to her, relax, stop looking and he will come.

I have never got that, how can you find anything if you dont look for it? Its easy for people to have something already to be all "oh stop looking,thats what I did" rubbish if they had stopped looking they would still be single.

I havent been looking for years and certainly nothing has found me.

Hi M, hope you're well.

I agree with a lot what was said. I don't believe in "looking" in the sense of going out on the hunt on the weekend but I do think if I'm not open to the possibility or willing to listen and talk to strangers occasionally, it certainly won't help.

I also think looking at oneself and assessing if the pattern in the choice of partner is similar in the past and what am I exactly looking for?

Being at ease with myself and just happy is something which helps. If I'm not in a good place, I don't meet good people and I actually think this could be harmful.

I ran into my ex on a night out (introduced by a friend) and I actually wasn't impressed in the start . But just getting to talk to each other repeatedly and getting to know the person without any though of a relationship or expectations and just chatting and having fun conversing with each other made me take notice.

I actually hate being chatted up which doesn't help meeting new people, but with going out, enjoying myself, meeting friends and getting to know new people there are opportunities so who knows what might happen?

Wishing you best of luck meeting someone as special as you.

No, I did meet you and you're not, you're good fun, open minded and great to talk to.

Would be good to see you again M, will be in Cork in June - have to go to a hen night for a girl who is in her mid-twenties... They organised zorbing, I have to come up with an excuse to get out of that one!