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Jana
I think its ok to be alittle mysterious but not to the point where no one says nothing. I just don't like guessing & wondering if a guy is interested or not. Either way its good to know then not to. I think sometimes we can play it cool to not appear "desperate".

I say meet in the middle....both of us have our strengths/weaknesses & sometimes we can bring it out from each other to balance out...if we are compatable. Like they say opposites attract sometimes.

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Hi baltus
I don't usually go after guys that are taken tho. I'm sure you know that. you just assume if one is communicting with one another you either show an interest or not.

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Itchy
Some should be in the dog house to learn their laesson I will keep a leash at a fair distance I know what I want & what I don't want. Life works in mysterious ways tho.

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Frank
I agree I'm kinda the same way. If I'm not interested I don't respond at all tho. I don't believe in stringing someone along either especially when it invoves the heart. It would be nice if we could respond to all messages but not always. If I'm truly not interested I know right away & I try to let him know.

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Jana
I show my interest in different ways. I don't always know right away. Sometimes it takes me longer to be sure & somtimes not. With online I find it differebt in a way then meeting in person. I'm sure people show interest in differnt ways & makes us wonder.

I wonder if I give off certain vibes. I'm alittle shy & a private person so sometimes if I'm interested I don't always show it. Sometimes you wonder if guys are that way themselves.

For me of I'm really interested I'm happy whenever we communicate or get together. I'm not the clingy or joined at the hips type. I don't want to see hime everyday but at long as we're communicating with each other. I enjoy my freedom like I'm sure he does.

I think its not about how much time we spend together its about the us time together. But if a guy isn't interested I would like to know & not be strung along. And vice versa.

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Dear frank
Thank you for responding! It is true about accomodating each others lives...as to whether it succeeds or fails. When we start seeing someone we don't always factor in both lives & keep speculating.

In your eyes what to you seems like a good time frame to communicate in whatever method? I'm saying if you are interested in someone when you first are together do you prefer communication everyday or when time permits? Is there a grace period on length of time? Is a week or even two weeks too long without communication?

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Jana hmmm it makes me wonder if they are stringing us along or they're actually interested & are actually busy. Is it that what makes them come back or . They say women are complicated but I think some men are complcated.

Btw not ball bashing just wanna know what guys really think about certain things. Sometimes I feel I get mixed signals from guys or give off certain vibes......

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Hi itchy
I'm patiently waiting myself.

Its funny tho I was chatting with two local guys & I haven't heard from them both in over a month....one hide his profile & the other aploigized for lengthy response. Now they're both kinda communicating with me...kinda weird I thought they lost interest. That's why guys make me wonder....

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I want no room for doubt
I hate wondering or guessing
Or even assuming....the worst

I think dating has changed & along with it the "normals". I used to wait for the guy to approach me or to call me. But now there's texting involved.....& online dating.....

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Hi jana
I'm curious too because I hear so many different things...mostly from woman & of differnt ages & experiences. I would like to know what is really universally acceptable or just go with the flow? Because I have differnt experiences also & let's say it makes me wonder.

RE: My Nephew

My warmest sympathies.
He's way too young I feel for you.
My condolences.

RE: hmmm hhmm hhmm hhhmmmmm

The same as every night
Sweet dreams tonight

RE: hmmm hhmm hhmm hhhmmmmm

Same here can't tie a stem but I can tie something....the tongue can do its magic

Thanks

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Hi virgo

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Its better with chocolate sauce oooh I forgot the sprinkles & the cherry on top hmmmm I wonder if you can tie cherry stem with your tongue

Oh yes its been kinda interesting today. I guess its true calm before the storm. And its been storming where's that rainbow

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Hi pacific!

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Hi bsooner
I'm better today but had to work. It was fun I'm gonna do it next year again for sure.

Yeah its crazy here alittle tonight is its full moon or something

Mmmmmmm chocolate

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Oh geez sorry bsooner for some reason I keep calling you boomer

Virgo your second song wouldn't play for me either

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Boomer
I did have fun!
Song didn't play for me tho

Virgo
That's a nice song
I just figured how to put my pics up I'll eventually figure how post a video

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Good night morgen

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Boomer....in july/august that's usually when there's more happening here. There is a bunch of festivals going on. This festival ran sat/sun & next week is octoberfest but not going because I'm working. Usually its quiter in the colder winter months. But throughout year there is some things going on.

I didn't have any margaritas tho....but had other drinks such chocolate wine/ chocolate beer, a tequila shot first thing on an empty stomach(not good) a couple diffefrent wines, a slush & I can't remember what else. There was so much more to try different beers/wines/other types of booze...

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Hello there
Mr senorita morgarita

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Heehee yup that's ok
I was with my sister we went to the rocky mountain wine & food festival. I swear there was no booze to sample than food. Where shall I start that I had hmmm

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I heard that boomer

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I haven't tried the chatroom I may find it confusing I'm happy here at the blogs. Its almost 11pm sat evng & I had too much to drink lol. I'm in a silly mood lol.

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Hi coffee
Yes family time is precious. I enjoyed watching movies together while growing up. I still miss it. Its true to get caught up in busyness of day to day life. Its good to get together with family.

Enjoy the time with your kids tonight. Do you know what you're watching yet? I'm spending the day with my sister later on so I'm excited we haven't done that in awhile just the two od us.

DON'T BE SHY

Here's my answers....

* I have 2 cats....lucy & daisy
* I have no tatoos
* all seasons for different reasons

* idesl first date....somewhere where we can talk & get to know each other. Whether its a drink/coffee....that could lead to doing something else.
* dream date....a nice walk & a picnic in park if nice out or have indoor picnic or cook together. And later snuggle on couch watching a movie.

* anywhere I like to try different places
* I like almost any type of food.
* I prefer both especially together

RE: Une meeting dans les europeee

If its somewhere in europe I would stay more than 2 days as its a longer distance for me & be more worthwhile to stay longer there. Even my country has a few things to offer. Anywhere is good around the world...gives an excuse to travel somewhere. If its a go I'm in!

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Hi summer
Thank you! And its nice to know more about you. We have four seasons here. Its fall now & soon winter will be here along with the snow.

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That would be cool if we all got to meet somewhere