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Ahhh the joys of aging!!

Aisha
If it were that easy I think its easier to find a job first & then love. For some it takes years to find love, but with work you have better odds. One thing for sure, both come with rejection.

:hmmm; but if one found love before finding work, wouldn't that be more of a distraction?

RE: Anybody on CS good at cooking

I'm good at cooking!
But I'm getting sleggy!
But hey....
Bend over & crack me a smile.
Ooops did I say that out loud.
Good eggs!

RE: Women have a way with words! (just my opinion)

Weel perhaps like a volcano.....when under pressure, it keeps building up, when the conditions are right......kaboom! Sure there are some women....(& men)....who have verbal wars. Some do so because its a release. But there are some who have anger issues.

When I'm upset I admit I've used words, in the heat of the moment. And I do feel bad aftterwards. Where some use their mouths, others use their fists. Which is better....neither....as both hurt. In an ideal situation....is to talk it out in a mature manner.

Wow! Life can be great!

Sorry about your toothache :sadflower: I hate when that happens. I hope it feels better son. Do you know what's wrong? Today was sunny, but it started to rain. Now its chilly. But I like the smell of rain!

Wow! Life can be great!

Hi virgo!
It looks like its been a slow day! I just decided to come here after I finished work this evening. I'm sure it'll pick up soon. I'll probably fall asleep when that happens

Nice sone! How are you?

RE: Good morning from Cloudy Indonesia.....

Happy start to the week!
I finished work tonight. I'm off for 8days. My week hasn't officially started yet. It'll start when I wake up. Its almost 1am...Sunday night. Its my birthday this week. Si I decide to take it off & enjoy it! And the wether will be pretty nice...I heard!

I have many reasons to smile. And laugh about! Here I send you many canadian hugs from me. Enjoy your day & your week! See you around the blogs! :hug;

RE: marriage or relationship or dating?

Dating is a good way to get to know someone, whether it works out or not. With dating, it can start off slow. As time goes on, hopefully it develops into a relationship. If it all goes well...marriage comes along. You can't have marriage without a relationship first. And most marriages start off with dating. Cheers!

RE: marriage or relationship or dating?

I started off with dating, I'm in a relationship now, someday it'll lead to marriage. I prefer being in a comitted relationship. There's good in all 3 but everyone seeks someone. Some want temporary, some want forever. I guess some are looking but haven't found what they seek. But also there are pros & cons....no need to rush. Dating isn't always fun.

Walking Wounded?

Oh virgo...my body is my temple regardless of how I look. Losing all that weight & getting a killer body...that's not revenge...that's me taking care of myself. Besides the best revenge is doing better & making hime relize its his loss, not mine!

Welela....I have found someone & from CS....& so far he's a keeper. We're doing good so far & things are going well. We are moving in together very soon. I'm alittle nervous tho...I haven't lived with a guy before, so its new to me. But I'm alittle excited as well.

Cowhand....interesting comment.
Thank you for it.

Venus envy.....yes recognition is always the first step. Its kinda hard to move forward if you fail to acknowledge what's holding you back. Thanks!

Walking Wounded?

Hi timotie
Thanks for the comment!
I guess the truth will set you free....for love. If you can't communicate, then it'll be hard for love to continue. It helps to be comfortable & feel safe to open up. Having someone as a friend & lover wrapped up in one, goes a long way in a relationship!

Walking Wounded?

Hi rob
Yes it can hurt. But not always.
A broken heart hurts.
But love doesn't have to hurt.
Fake love does hurt tho.
It sets up false hope.
But love is always possible.

Walking Wounded?

Hi purdy
I wish you luck!
I agree, the loneliness feeling part isn't the best part, but I've also enjoyed that time as well. I almost feel sorry for those who are afraid to be alone....its like they're afraid to be with themselves. If you're afraid to be with yourself...is that the message you want to send out to others....be afraid to be with me?

RE: honisty

So you're 19yoa & you're last date was when you're 14yoa? Well first of all you're still young...don't worry. Just be yourself & learn/discover life. If you're a shy guy, maybe get a hobby or join a club. By doing so you could perhaps find a girl with common interests.

If you're not sure how to approach a woman...just start with, "hi, how are you?",...for starters. And see how she responds. Good luck. I hope this helps...not quite sure what you're asking.

IDK...I don't know.
I think that's what it means

I think I've had enough!

Thanks everyone for your comments.
I appreciate the comments, sometimes it feels like some don't understand what we go through. I guess there's more than meets the eye. Some look at what isn't done, instead of what is done.

I guess every job has its stresses...in different areas & different ways. We may think/assume one job may appear "easy", but is it really?

There are certain aspects of my job I enjoy & others I don't. There's some things I could change. But the other things...well they are out of my control. Its not always easy, but it makes a difference knowing that I did/do my best.

Everyone in the health/medical industry plays a vital role. There is no "small role", we all make a difference regardless of our role. But each make their "role" as part of a team.

Thanks!

I think I've had enough!

Hi waf! ...actually I'm a nursing attendent...a lot different than a nurse. Part of my job is helping them with the basics. Like....transferring them to & from bed, washing/bathing them, feeding them, changing them, turning them, personal hygiene. Basically what we do everyday, but the difference is they need help.

Thank you waf!

RE: care to share ?!

I'm working on my health at the moment, especially my weight. I gain alittle weight last year after I hurt my back. But my weakness is my sweet tooth.

RE: caught in the act.

Confront him. Then dump him.

RE: What's rolling folks.....

Its 2:05 am here, Friday morning. Not ready to party. Its late. But I have a date with my bed soon . I have Friday off tho. I got an appt & later I'm spending the day with my boyfriend . But on Saturday & Sunday I'm working. But I will have a virtual drink with you!

RE: Have a nice weekend!

It looks soo nice!! Great pic!
Have an awesome wknd! :yay!

??? Never get old ???

Rueva...thanks!
Well its never to late to stop smoking if you choose too. It'll benefit you if you stop...use it as a motivation. Perhaps seeing your kid(s), that's if you have (or plan to have) grow up & perhaps see your grandkid(s) grow up.

??? Never get old ???

Waf....thanks that means a lot! This job isn't for everyone, but someones gotta do it! I agree, health is wealth...without it quality of life goes down. Thanks!

??? Never get old ???

Bogart....that's true! I forgot about that quote. It reminds me when I see some older people doing things that some younger people won't do. They don't let age get in their way. Thanks!

Busy! Busy!

Guadal....no camping yet. Its still cold to do so. Camping season is around the corner!

PS welea...my tongue was alittle sore, but it went away quiclly. My back felt it the most.

Busy! Busy!

Welea....thanks! It will be fun, its fun to spoil them. Have a grreat wknd yourself.

Parti...I enjoyed them those. Many to you as well. Have a grreat wknd.

Gifts!

For me its clothes! I don't like getting them as gifts. Usually if I do its either not something I would wear or like, or the wrong size. Unless I'm there & I tell them exactly what I want, chances are its either gonna be exchanged or returned.

For example, would you want or like clothes as an anniverary gift? Would you consider that an appopriate gift for the occasion?

For me I can be sentimental. A gift from the heart with effort is priceless. I can look back at the gift & it triggers a happy memory of that day/occasion. For certain occasions it doesn't matter what I get, but its better when its practical & such. But for some occasions it does matter.

RE: Why I like CS

I agree! It can be more interesting at times....even more so than FB. I also met someone through this site. I enjoy the blogs but I'm not on as much as used to be. Plus I've tried other sites....& I have better luck here. I enjoyed the blogs while searching for someone. Now I got that special someone

I'm Freezing!!

I find it interesting that when its -30c, -5c feels warm. But when its +30c, +5c feels cold I like.it when the temp is comfortable....not too hot or too cold, it just feels right. I don't like the etreme cold, or when its too hot & humid....which makes it hard to sleep at night.

The coldest I've experienced that I can remember is -40c & the hottest is around +35c.....that's not including the windchill .or humidex, which makes it colder or hotter than the actual temp. I also don't like the rollercoaster of temps fluctuating within a short period of time.

I hope you either keep cool or keep warm wherever you are. And if its just right: for you....enjoy!!

I'm Freezing!!

ED...that sounds tempting Too bad about the job market tho. I bet its nice there

RAHUL....how hot does it get in india? What's the coldest temp you experienced? I'll pass tho It doesn't get this cold everyday & we have 4 seasons....which is nice

Spinner...it was a balmy -5c today The sun was out, the sky was blue! It just felt nice And tomorrow will also be the same.

I'm Freezing!!

Boban....same here! Not too crazy about winter. This winter is ok, despite the coldness & the wind. I'm glad its not cold eveyday. I'm just not like the sudden cold & warm...feels like a "weather yo-yo". Lol

Cuddlingsoul....wow that seems hot! I'm not too sure what it is in •C tho. but I have an idea. You know its cold when you wear slippers to keep your feet warm. I'm glad I have my heater to keep me warm

I'm Freezing!!

Virgo....those pics look nice with the fire ban here, its only when the conditions are at a high risk for wild fires. We can have fires but they must be conatined & covered....to reduce the risk of sparking a fire.