I had a 3 day long wknd I had fun & unexpected surprise. It started slow & went out of town for a bday party & it ended with a 5 hour coffee with a guy I met first time today through a friend. We texted since Friday & met today.
I've been there! Don't kiss on the lips...a pec onthe cheek is ok. It depends what you do....don't where shades indoors. What to talk about ...go with the flow. The words...hard to say....don't ask about exes on first meeting/date.
Scruffie I work in LTC & I see it...its true. Some are so lonely & sometimes bored. If I get time that's if time permits I may visit them they have many stories to share & hugs. They tell you things anout themselves. I even have volunteered at a hospital with pediatrics & elderly I enjoyed it! Good blog!
Oh narnia do you need a hand...here you go now write bored backwards 50 times that way you think backwards & aren't derob. If that doesn't work write "I'm not bored" 20 times & that still doesn't work...well I guess ur derob bored
@stelli I like handbags myself...have too many lol. I like working & get satisfaction when I can afford to do so. I treat myself once in awhile but not always. It feels good when you've earned it.
An ex bought me something I've always wanted for years I didn't have to ask for it. Everytime I look at it brings back memories of that day & other things. I wouldn't of gotten that same feeling from an expensive gift. A friend asked the price of it & I told her....she said he's cheap!
Do what's right! If you jump head first & not look back....make sure you weigh the pros & cons. Make a list. That commute seems long for 2-3days per week though.
Staying at a job that doesn't help you grow makes you feel not as useful as you'd like. Have you tried approaching for a better position there or assumed you need certain education....
If you decide to go to farm 100% are you financialy able to do so? Even with no experience you can still learn...life is ongoing learning. And also ur never too old to further education.
Also is there something you've always wanted to do? In the end do what is right for you. Anything is possible & believe in yourself. Change is good even if its scary...that first step is the hardest but eventually it gets easier. Good luck!
It depends on the guy & if I'm attracted to him or not. I did date a guy who was on the chubby size....he was a gentleman. Great people come in different shapes & sizes. A guy who is genuine & sincere is more attractive than a guy who is full of himself.
They there how rya? And thank you! Yes its true we gotta sop taking things for granted.
And someday we both will get a great guy who deserves us...& is deserving of us. We deserve a guy who's great & a great guy deserves us! And we are great & the guy is great...so we deserve greatness.
Placebo & stelli Its the status they are after. Its like look what I got. They want a certain lifestyle but can't afford it. So someone else works like mad so they can have that latest high price ticket item. But at what cost?
Are they happy....not necessarily! Some may of grown up not so well off h vowed to have what they want...casue they were lacking something. Those who buy those items are buying the woman (& some men) love.
I'm not against those who have money & have a good lifestyle. I just feel for those who try to buy anothers love. They are people pleasers...they worry about others over themselves.
@stella I know someone who when she gets something from her now husband she brags about it....especially the price like I care. It seems like some people care more about material items with a high price tag than the feel good parts of a relationship. Yes some people are materialistic & to me tha is a turn off.
@placebo I've been thinking of that lately myself. I have a friend who wants to be taken care of. She wants the best of everything. She met a guy a couple years ago while with her ex. She's gotten a lot from him & still wants more. And... I could go on but I won't .
Its his job to get you away from this site & to try to get your email. Just wait....more are coming your way enfortunately. You'll get marriage proposals & them giving their email on first message.....& so on.
RE: Don't wanna ask for more..Life is great!
Thanks jana we might get together again this Friday! Keep ya posted!