@african thank you! Sometimes I want to express myself but I don't always do. And sometimes when you want to that someone won't talk. Sometimes you don't get that chance.
You wanna express yourself & the one person you want to hear what bothering you & get off you chest....I didn't get the chance. It feels like a huge weight on my shoulder & is dragging me down in a way.
I wish I did express myself but I didn't now I must go on. I want the weight off my shoulders & be free! I must free my mind & the rest will follow.
1. Years back I went to my moms home we visited a couple. Both in their 90s...married at age 14 & 16. Both holding hands & giving pecks on each others cheeks.
2. I work in a long term care facility....husbands & wives come every day hours at a time. Just being there regardless. There is even a couple & they're in their 20s (so sad...too young!).
Don't know? Dreams are something to do with our subconscious. Are you still thinking about him in waking hours? I had a dream about an ex ahile back...it was though we were still together. It was kinda weird.
So true! Its like being chained up....break free from the chain...it holds you back. It accomplishes nothing & gets you nowhere. You stay stuck in your past & you don't move forward.
I like the old school approach myself. What women doesn't . But it seems guys lately aren't from the old school...well some. Is it wrong to give a guy your number? I do like when a guy is a gentleman & I've dated some who are.
A little bit both...as in asking out. I've asked a guy out. Usually he pays though. I might buy coffee if we decide to go. I asked the guy cause I liked him & a guy I know told me he liked me as well. So I made the first move. If its b-day I take him out.
I prefer him to call to ask me out or make plans. I think texting was invented by a man so he wouldn't talk to women lol. Its nice to talk & you get a vibe you don't get by texting.
And I don't like when a guy says he will call & doesn't. He says he's too busy but yet finds time to text.
The perfect night.... Starts with him showing up & ending with a drink of some kind. And is going to be another date if he's lucky lol. Uhmmm....maybe a kiss.
So ur saying if a guy asks to be your friend but may have certain feelings. Do I accept friendship or ignore him?
Well you can't make/force someone be attracted to you. It has to be mutual. If someone asks to be friends that is ok. Is there attraction online...that depends...you don't truly know what someone is like. Face to face you know more.
A man & woman can be friends as long as its mutual. Sometimes friendships lead to more. Sometimes relationships don't work out & the two are better as friends.
Did I answer your question? I hope I didn't misinterpret your comment to me.
@ baltus Oops I meant I don't use my looks to get what I want. What do I want well where to start lol. If I want something I ask or do it myself...I don't always rely on others.
Hey how'd ya know?? lol. There's a timmys here where a bunch of bikers hang out during the warmer months. The paring lot full of bikes. They laugh at you for having steeped tea
Have I discovered decaf yup but I prefer real coffee lol. Can u guess what I'm drinking at moment?.. why does timmys have 2b so close to me lol. hehe maybe get a cooffee tat
It would be kinda cool to get a tatoo by Kat Von De. When I do get a tatoo I don't wanna look back & regret it. I've seen some nice tats. I've heard it costs more & more pains taking to get tat removed. A tat is perm so I don't wanna remove once inked.
As someone who has no kids I don't think ur selfish at all. I have friends & family who have kids. When my sis comes into town I spend time with my niece & nephew....I enjoy the time with them & helping my sis out. My sis cherishes her alone time.
You are not selfish for taking care of youself. You are not not sefish for bettering you life...for yourself & for your kids. And if someone says ur selfish well maybe they are jealous in some way.
RE: Dream Weaver
You can try warm milk...sometimes it helps or sleepy music.