We are grown adults & we do have a choice in who we are friends with or not. We should base it on facts & how they treat us....not only because someone said so. But sometimes a friend will warn us of someone....& we think "whatever"....but in time we find out they are right.
What to do? Go with your gut feeling. Don't believe everything you hear. There are two sides to every story. I don't always go by what others say...I find out for myself. You judge for yourself & go from there. If we always go by what others say then we're not being true to ourselves.
Hi weepingmist....thanks! Yes you don't have to be perfect to love someone ....nor does anyone else. If that were the way to be then no one will be loved. If strive for perfection then basically you're telling others you're unloveable as you are. Perfection is unrealistic. Imperfection leads to love.
Hi shay Imperfections that are interesting...yes that's true. To me that makes someone more interesting & real. They don't hide it, they live their life as tho its a part of themselves. Imperfections make us unique. If/when we excessively change ourselves (surgery) its like hiding a part of ourselves from others. Thank you!
Elmorya...I wouldn't like to look like everyone else I rather look like myself. I wouldn't have plastic surgery either....I wouldn't want something to go wrong or look worse than before. I've heard some surgeries gone bad....& then surgeries to correct it.
Yes he's an example of it....he looked better before the surgeries. After all them surgeries he looked fake. Its sad when one wants & does that to make themselves look "better" when it does the opposite. He's not the only one who has & he won't be the last...unfortunately.
That is so true. We should appreciate what we do have & not fixate on what we don't have. Someone else would switch places with you in a heartbeat....because you got what they've been dreaming of.
Its funny I don't know how to fix it either. It just started working on its own. This happened to me yesterday & its still not letting me add my friend. I type in her name & it erases it
I'm alittle on the shy side myself....I used to be really shy before. I find my shyness has worked for me & against me. I have my days when I want to be alone & my other days where I'm more social. My shyness is a part of me & there is nothing wrong with me because of it. Or anyone else.
Romantic moments happen whenever you work at it. Whether in the beginning or years into the relationship. People change in different stages of their life. We progress & we change....hopefully for the better. The monent may not last....but the memory will in our heart.
RE: Rainbow Rising
Hi ariel