Only at first
Some people are sweet at first ... Always have time for you at first... Seems to care at first ... But why do some people change after you love them so much? ... Maybe all romantic moments only happen at first ... But never last .......
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yeah, false hope.
Well noted.
The Art of Love rule... patience, continence, meaningful communication, spending many, but short -lasting meetings together. No long- lasting skyping or phone calls...
I am not going to write more... men should not know all our weapons and should have NO IDEA about artilery
Shay, take it easy.
Thank you for the meaningful advices as always. Seems I have so much more to learn. About our weapons, we'll keep them our secret Ateh.
Thank you for the great thought.
And the romantic moments will happen only if both party is willing to work for it.
I'll catch the desirable love they are throwing.
It need to be some sort of progression.
Need to be a mentioned meeting in the end also.
If that don't come on the platter within a month or two, the (menti of a meeting) then why hang on?
For internet freind?
that what u looking for?
Me here heve basically 3 groups i place ppl in:
-Internetfriends. I don't expect to see them ever.
-Friends that i hope to meet someday.
-Canidates.
My tale above is mostly meant for the last group, my pot.gf.
But even the friends can now and then menti the possibility for meeting, though no preassure at all. Can be FAAAR into the future, if ever.
So to what you really talk about here: the pot.partner; look for progression and start "pushing" for a meeting within reasonable time. If u meet resistence the individual most likely ain't enough intrested in you or have a stronger plan with someone else.
Don't mix up friends with possible partners!
Is my advice. Though it CAN start as "friends" sometimes.
Just dont see urself blind on that! Its mostly clear rel.early on if both sides see this one as a possible partner or not.
Look for the RESISTAAANCE (french.lol) -to rule it out.
Ok, that comment was a tad long... i'll work on it..
This happens even in real life … very rarely … still happens!
If we have a romantic interest in them... most people put extra effort into the early part of the relationship... they put extra effort into being attractive.
Often they will pull back if you show more interest in them than they feel about you... when they feel they have more control of the relationship. Many don't behave well when they are in control... they don't have a good internal compass.
There are lots of turns and twists in this topic, Shay. Personally, I like to get to the part of the relationship that is boring. When the excitement fades and we don't know what to talk about next. That's when someone's true character is most visible.
(Most people who are single for a long time don't know how to maintain a relationship when it feels boring.)
Twinself, Thanks.
Thanks again.
That was exactly my question I had years ago
I think other bloggers comment have answered your question. I just want to add, perhaps we need to chance our expectation on someone even though he/she made us smitten
As for romantic moments, well, a great challenge to keep romantic moments last from the first stage of your friendship until it grows something into more-than-a-friendship relationship. To be honest with you and sorry for saying this, never-ending romantic moments only happen in fairy tale stories
Good night
Gee why today I saw many of my fave here
See you
Shay - Your last sentence... "In the end, love never last."
I believe love does last... if we want it to... if we understand that it doesn't stay the same... that it will feel different at different times... that some days it will light up our lives and some days we'll wonder where it is... if we don't push it away, it will be there.
We also need positive habits... love should be encouraged and not discouraged. When we get angry, we discourage love (in ourselves and in our partner) ... when we reach out our hand... when being with someone is enough for us... when we smile when something good happens to someone else... we encourage love.
If we encourage love, it will last forever. Learn this and find someone who also lives with this outlook ...
As we get older, it's easier to see things like this... but doesn't seem to be any easier to find them.
@lachicabonita
I have an assignment somewhere very far.... my time here is over. Thanks to my all CS friends.
Shay - It's part of the process of growing up & finding the right person in your life - I'm no expert in finding love but I have had my share of romances that didnt work
That special person will come along some day for you - they will have all the qualities that you want in a relationship and it should last - but it will also need compromise from you both in good & bad times - Be yourself from the 1st day you meet & never change, smiles will be brought to your face in early morning, the afternoon and with hugs & kisses in the evening
-hehe, that is bull! It can.
Thank you for the advice Lach. As for the matter of meeting someone online, I have been cautious now. I had my expectations up and just ended hurt. But still I am keeping my faith and taking one day at a time. Hoping I won't lose my patience. Just kidding. Btw, Take care always Lachi and visit us here in the blogs whenever you can.
Btw, Lach, have yet to see the Bollywood movie. Thanks.
Inthemind, Yeah, Lachi is around...hehehhe
Thank you for the encouragement in finding the love the would last. I believe in everlasting love too, if both partner is ready to make it last. Well, I have yet to find that gentleman who will share the everlasting love with me. Thanks again.
Guess, you are leaving CS too? Hope you are just taking a break and would come back soon. Good luck to your new endeavor.
Felix, Thanks for the great insights. I am always hopeful that someday, someone will come to share my life with me and put up both our effort to stay in love and grow old together.
Morgen
Thanks All.
to chanceto changeshay, sorry I just found out your message on that book this morning. Missed you too
inthemind and Felix...
Morgen, I refer to that 'romantic moments' not the romance in general
i wish you all the best in finding your next love Shay, a big hug for ya :-) xoxoxo