Ahhh the joys of aging!!

When you're younger, you wanna be older.
When you're older, you wanna be younger.
Then you hear....."never get old"....LOL
Whom do I usually hear this from?
Older people complaining of their aches & pains.
You can't avoid aging...its part of life!

Do you remember in your younger years, wanting to be "sophisticated"? To be on your own & independent, & "free", to do whatever you want....whenever you want. Then that time comes, & now for some reason....you want to be young again. You realize being grown up, actually has responsibilities.

Gone are the days where all you had to worry about was homework & chores. As you got older, you may of had a part time job while in high school. Some of us wanted to grow up fast....& gotten into trouble because of it.

Fast forward after you're done schooling after high school...that's if you went. Then you get a job in your chosen field....hopefully. In the meantime you search for love, as you're living your life. You pay bills, cooking & cleaning, achieve a healthy balance between....work & play, friends & family.....& so on!

Life goes on, & you get older. Your body doesn't work as it used too. You're looks change, your helath changes. There's many changes throughout life. Some of us age gracefully, & well...age catches up. Some will have "work done". Then it hits you....your lifes passes you by, where did it go?

If age is just a number, how old do you feel? Are you happier now, than before? Or were you happier at another point of your life?

Well at this moment, for me......
I'm in a better point of my life. I haven't done everything I wanted to...yet!! But in time I will....if I don't, maybe something better comes along. I'm happy at what I've accomplished, but at the same time I know I could be doing better.... There's things I still need to do....& want to do. My happier moments....happened throughout my life & still is!!
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Hi Zweetwave nice blog, seems i found a clue.
Better to get a love first and then in the mean time to look for workidea laugh
Morning to you Zweet4you from Norway. I've been up half an hour and still not fully awake, but will try to get my thoughts to function enough to answer you blog. I am at a age now that I feel I have it all, I am very happy, I can do what ever I want when I want to. That's the good part of being a mature woman. I even got to go to visit a friend in Colorado USA in 2010 when I had my 50's birthday. It was great and one of my big dreams in my life came true, I got go to a Native American Reservation. It was a dream come true, I even had to take a sweat lodge with my Native American friend. So one of my biggest dreams come true the year I got 50, so what more is there to come? A lot... a lot. I will keep on enjoying my walks in the forest and I will be happy because I live my life the way I want to. In total freedom for my person.

Wish you a wonderful day when it starts for you.hug teddybear
Hi Zweet,

The joys of aging? Wisdom, patience and inner peace; not all of them always present..

But also arthritis, high blood pressure, cholesterol, heart palpitations, impotency, senility and what all.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Well, I suppose you still have a few years in hand. Pity I won’t be around to read your blog update on this in 30 years from now.
rolling on the floor laughing :roll
Aisha
If it were that easy laugh I think its easier to find a job first & then love. For some it takes years to find love, but with work you have better odds. One thing for sure, both come with rejection.

:hmmm; but if one found love before finding work, wouldn't that be more of a distraction? giggle wink laugh grin
Welea
Good morning to you! Its alittle past my bed time....I had to unwind after I finished work tonight. No worries, your thoughts are good! Sometimes my thoughts aren't the greatest before I sleep....my brain goes in off mode laugh

That must of been an awesome experience for you. Did you go, or see any other places while there? I would like to travel & experience different things....still on my to do list.

I agree being older has its perks. I wonder what I'll be doing in about 20yrs. Its a good feeling to have freedom with your life....in what you do & when you do it. Keep on walking. I enjoy walking as well, I sometimes get lost in the moment.....to clear my mind....& my mind wonders.

Have a good Thursday! hug teddybear
Nonsmoker
Kids come up with the most interesting conversation at times. I wonder why they would ask that. Maybe the topic came up somewhere. Perhaps they were curious dunno But they make you think in their own special way.

I remember when I was in junior high, we had an assignment for class. The assignment? Create your own tombstone & write something on it! I had trouble with. How could I? Death was the furthest thing from my mind. I can't even remember what I wrote.
Ladyblackadder
It seems aging is good. It has its perks! yay I wonder where I'll be or what I'll be doing at that age. Your attidude is everything....it either makes or breaks you. As you age, your perception & priorities change. Your body also changes. Life is unpredictable, so one must enjoy what it has to offer.

Life is like wine, it gets better with age. Too bad our bodies aren't like wine laugh But there are those who are better shape when they're older, than when they were younger. Take care of your body, its the only one you've got. cheers to wine
Hi Zweet, good blog. wave
Age is not just a number for me in regards to dating. dunno
Otherwise, I do notice that my body changes and I have pains I didn't have years ago, on the other side I think I did improve in the looks department. My attitude to life and myself did change and I am more relaxed with who I am. I arrived at a stage in my life where I know what I want and what I like and that is a positive thing for me. wine
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