Summer, thats a hype in Holland too, but instead of staying with each other, they divorce after 6/7 years, start over again and again, and that way they grow older and older and still have young kids. Poor people
yes baltus, thats one of the things we could say as a habit. I always say, thank you no matter what, even if people are rude. I noticed it makes them think about there self. The same as the Americans say, "excuse me" if they want to pass you, they might not mean it all the time but at least you know they want to get trough. In Holland they just push you aside first and then say excuse me, makes no sence to me. People in India are very respectful to others I,ve heard
I,m not searching, cause I think, that whats mend to be mine, will find me. We'll meet one way or the other. I hope you found the right one, and if so, there will always be ways to work it out for the both of you. I live in 2 countries from 1996 and both have there pro's and con's and there's things I miss from both countries being in the other. Good luck, wish you all the happines you can get.
I guess it's just a habit of people saying this, now a days, as well as I love you and youre welcome. Just empty phrases if you don't know the meaning of it.
Stool, I feel so sorry for you, what you have to go trough with this kids. I see you are a very loving father but even those cannot prevent unwanted things all the time. I think you did a good job by teaching them at least the basics, cause thats what they show when their around you, so they know, but being in a totally different enviroment most of the time, makes them do the opposit, its kind of surviving for them, go with the flow. I know how hard it is seeing your kids going the wrong way and nothing or little you can do but I think you love them too much to give up, in your mind, its gonna haunt you if you do. If there is no way you can take them in your home, at least tell them you love them very much, make sure the 15 year young is on birthcontroll, thats the least you can do now to prevent worse case senarios, and tell them you will always be there for them when they need you. Not moneywise, thats not gonna work, but for a shelter, a listening ear and a helping hand. And for comforting loving hugs. Its not selfish backing up a bit, you need to stay strong for the time they really need you and this time will come. I wish you a lot of strenght in this. I know its so easy for others to point fingers and tell you what you do wrong or right, or how to act, if not in the situation themselfs, but your love for these kids will pay itself back, in time. take care and be safe.
Ru4, Thanks, and we'll see, not so sure there are still men around who can live with me, the one I had was one out of thousand I guess and they are very rarely this days
read a while back: stop the searching and the finding will begin don't know if its true, but I,m sure there is someone for you too, as they say, every pan has a lid, or something like that.
It comes when you less expect it, you'll see, I,m sure
think this is a mens problem, finding a woman who plays the follower, the dog of the hunter we don't need that anymore are you men hurt in your ego, in being superman for woman? no need for that, we still need each other
RU, I Know, don't need more explanation but that is what you men wanted us to be for your own convenience. Just wanted to say, because of that, we don't get away with more, at least not in Holland. We're treated equaly like man, in good and bad
well I don't wanna be a baby again, but wished I still had the innocence of a kid. And yes that would mean a lot less worries. But going back in time every now and then, recharges the battery, and keeps you young, in mind. If we all would do that, life would be a lot nicer, I think.
well Alf, show us I took it in Holland, de Efteling, europes biggest amusmentpark designed by Anton Pieck love it, specially this real big marry go round whit the horses, and it goes real fast looking to the world trhough the eyse of a kid
Alf, you never know if something is lost till you tried, but in this case I think youre right, and as for your answer to RU, that does not count for me, I don't beat, only kick in one field, lol
I do think its a generational difference but it happens everywhere, not only in Argentina, and I also believe it has something to do with the miserable postwar Europe situation. As for me, born after WW11, my parents taught me, never trow anything away that still works or can be useful sometime down the road. Good is good, special is something different. But I also think we have to get used these days, to change in that cause as RDM said, now a days buying something new is cheaper then repair the things you have. I too keep my stuff as long as it works and have no need to stay up to date with all these new technologies but sometimes we have no choice. Another thing, being in the economical bad situation we are all in now, I do think its easier for the older to take a step back, then for the younger, cause we where there before, and our kids actually grew up with a lot more wealth and the feeling the world is theirs. I hope they get trough this as we did, cause its a good lesson of life to learn how to appreciate what you have in better times.
interesting, I knew a lot of it but have one question are you sure about the dawn stuff and fleas and if, does it work with cat fleas too, cause they are something different then dog fleas
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RE: when I get married someday
Summer, thats a hype in Holland too, but instead of staying with each other, they divorce after 6/7 years, start over again and again, and that way they grow older and older and still have young kids. Poor people