Tell them, or let them read this, there's no bigger compliment parents can get, then the inner thought of their kids, told by themself. My daughter wrote me a letter this week to tell me her thought, and dough I know, this came on a moment a needed it most, and make you feel, you did your best and you did it right. Just tell them.
I also hear that more and more, it already starts in first grades, and I don't agree with it. Teachers getting less and less respect, the kids just see them as their friends, which is okee, but then don't accept any reprimands anymore and things get out of hand. You see that same thing happening between kids and their parents, and that mostly does not work either. I think kids need to learn about respect, and not only for teachers and parents, but just in general, respect for life, for others. But lately thats called old fashioned, and I don't agree. Actually I hate to see this coming up, its not gonna work in the long run.
Don't judge untill you know how someone gets where he is and why, others will do that for you. We are all human beings and dough we may think we are strong, you never know what life has in store for you, that makes you weak and do something you will regret for the rest of your life. Talk to your parents and your brother, tell all of them what you think of the situation, you don't have to agree, but also tell them, no matter what, he will always be your brother and their son, and you will always love and support him, dough you don't like what he has done. I think family support is the most important there is. Let him know you will be there if he needs you. Tell your parents not to be ashamed, they did not tell him to do this, and do they know what happens behind the neighbours door? Keep your head up high, and try to make the best of it. Tomorrow there will be someone else doing something wrong and that will be the talk of the day then. I wish you all strenght and the courage to show others you love this man, that will make you strong.
then youre in the wrong game, wrong place wrong time
I think it do is very unusually for woman to have male friends in most of the countries. I experience that if I live in the US. I,m so used to have male friends overhere, that I forget its different in other countries. But I always lived and worked in a mans world and feel comfortable in their world, an as said, it normal here in Holland. Maybe you should move over here.
suprising Mike you have to find yourself a GF or wife on here, always thought in the actor/model world they would come after you. And if your bored, welcome, join the club, there's more of those here. Me not included. Good luck in your search.
Try life never get among you and your kids? Guess you mean never get between me and my kids?
If thats what you mean, I,m not afraid of that, cause for all the adventures of life we already survived togheter, life could have already defeated us a 1000 times. Ofcourse, never say never, but a letter like this bonds us once again a bit tighter. We go trough fire for each other, and we know we can depend on the other, but it never hurts to renew the vow once in a while, just as in every kind of relationship. I love my kids and they love me, what more is there to wish. be safe
you know Summer, when we get kids, all we want is the very best for them, and we hope they become good people. We also tried to do so, but have to say, sometime you doubt you did it right. What they do is not all in our own hands, they are people of their own, with a mind of their own, and their own mistakes to make. We can give advise and be there when they need you, so they know there is always a safe haven to go to. But a times you need it the most, getting a letter like this, makes you realise, you don't have to doubt, they understood what you tried to teach them, and also have the courage to speak it out loud. This is what makes life worth to live for and no one can take that away. I like you too, I'll give you a hug back. Take care
Thanks coffee, I guess I did some good things, and it sure is great getting a letter like this at a moment you just need a shoulder to lay your head on I know my kids love me but this was very special for me we say I love you all the time, as a habit this was from her heart straight into mine God bless you too
hi coffee, I was married for 30 years and would still be, if my husband did not die I also do believe its give and take, if you have a steady base the boat might rock every now and then, but instead of sinking always returns to its safe harbour now a days most people get off the boat long before it even starts rocking
I voted for Obama and would do it again, give the man at least another 4 year chance, to see how much of the rubble, caused by others, he can shuffle away. Something that is build up for years can't be taken away in a blink of an eye. It takes money to make money, Bush only took the money, and a lot of lifes from the young US soldiers. Irak is still a mess, write the book. Every leader makes mistakes, but why give one the free hand and the other not even a chance. How long did it take to get the healthbill passed, how many lifes involved in that? Every change has pro's and con's, but wouldn't it be nice if we could take the best of both sides, democrates and republicans, and do what we have to do to save the country, instead of pulling it apart more and more.
It's the same everywhere these days, the ones on top are trying to clean up the mess they inherrited, welcomed with great bravour, and now, when things don't go fast enough in the eyes of the mass, they are the bad guys. Can tell you now already, the next man standing up will experience the same.
Come on people, lets work togheter to make this world a better place, if not for ourselfs, then at least for the sake of our children. AMEN
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RE: Doing what I can but wishing I could do more
Tell them, or let them read this,there's no bigger compliment parents can get,
then the inner thought of their kids,
told by themself.
My daughter wrote me a letter this week to tell
me her thought, and dough I know, this came on a moment
a needed it most, and make you feel, you did your best and
you did it right.
Just tell them.