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No-Answer: Back to Reality

Conga, your both statements are absolutely right. Thank you! bouquet

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Still, same here, and you chose great ones! thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up hug

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Still you made my day, thank you! wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow teddybear

RE: TO Detox!

Thank you Some! hug

RE: TO Detox!

Almera, I agree although I seriously doubt it that still grieving about a lost love, I will have the will to come to a dating site. At least I wouldn't be able. But yes, I would never start something with a man whose heart is still somewhere and not with me. wave

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Some, I left your question for the final since the way I get it (what is a productive question) it is very important for me and one of the answers of this blog. For me, a productive question (attitude) is the one which search for useful answers. What are useful answers? Answers which give knowledge and develop. Answers which lead to more questions. Exploring instead of asking rhetoric questions which lead to nowhere. hug wave

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Richard, you are absolutely right, but again the blog is not about negativity, just about the illusions we impose to us and other people pretending that we are naive silly kids. Yes it might make us cute, helpless, and romantic but actually, especially at a age after 30, it might seem ridiculous. And not productive wave handshake

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Still, of course, you are right. As I said, I am a person that doesn't like to be real. If I could, I would be constantly out of reality, but it always drags me down. laugh hug

And yes you are still balanced! wow wow wow grin

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Papermate, I don't stress on the negativity, on the contrary, I say that YES, YES, YES thing need to be balanced sometimes by a realistic NO. And again, I am a very optimistic person but I detest silly questions, including mine. wave

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Frank you said it all laugh teddybear wink

Thank you so much, you always know how to please me hug innocent

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Viking, your question is intended to be very smart and hinting as all your postings, right? wink If you read again my blog and comments you will see that I include myself among the people who ask silly questions for the quoted by you reasons. dancing wave

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Don, thank you for commenting on my blog!

You see, my thought was not about taking/giving love, I have heaps to give. It is about reality and pretending we don't know it. Yes illusions often do great work, but sometimes they are annoying. handshake wave

RE: TO Detox!

Some the exceptions stimulated me and helped me. You know the "enemies" help us in many ways.

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Some, I agree, and I said it on my comment to Zandaar too. Yes we need the YES, YES, YES thing. But sometimes YES has no sense anymore and makes us blind for reality. When I ask "Will I meet my Prince?" and 101 comments say (out of courtesy, pity, politeness) YES, it may encourage me a bit and will maybe play the role of a group mantra/prey. Hmm, but I don't see it as a productive question...

RE: TO Detox!

Nothing really weird, Some. I am glad I have met only nice people here. I don't count the couple of exceptions.

RE: TO Detox!

Common Almera, where to heal if not here laugh No worries, I think we can't date anyone seriously if we aren't healed. Just impossible. Also we aren't literally "ill". For example, I don't overcome some relationship, love or so. We just need some time to look around and in ourselves. And while doing it we may find some similar soul...

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Some, right, life has all tastes not only the sugar one. Sometimes I get in the straus pose with head hidden in the sands, but I don't like it much laugh hug

RE: TO Detox!

Some, first of all, it improved my English laugh

Seriously: Socializing with people here, publicly and privately, help me to get to know who I am and what do I want from myself and life. Also, CS blogosphere, being a small model of the society, improves my social skills. Third, I get to know things about relationships, men and women, love etc. Last but not least, I met some interesting men here... wave

No-Answer: Back to Reality

No problem Primavera, thank you for the details and of course, you have to be proud with this writer and novel! I have read 2 or 3 other novels of him but this one is definitely the best... wave bouquet

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Almera, you are absolutely right, but actually my blog's idea was to extend this particular situation (about questions on the blogs which annoy me) to some more general topics: about dreams and reality, naivety/silliness and reality, pretending/hiding from the truth, etc. wave

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Still you are so wise and balanced tonight laugh hug

To tell you the truth, when I am not busy with some practical things I like burying my head in the clouds and dream and think of things far from reality. Together with reading this is my ultimate escape from the "unbearable lightness of being" (quote from a famous writer). :) Sometimes therefore I need the shock of the "No" to balance myself.

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Rubicon, I just detest when we pretend to be ignorant...

No-Answer: Back to Reality

Still, which problem? Of being merciless? I think reality often hurts but we d better admit the real thing from time to time, not play the fool and flirt with silly dreams. wave

RE: Polygamy?

Have a great night Conga :) hug wave

RE: Polygamy?

But if you are so pessimistic about existing of love+faithfulness how do you think polygamy would help? dunno

RE: Polygamy?

I have seen it Conga, I assure you! And I even have been object of such...

RE: Polygamy?

Conga it's not about laws. It's about love and faithfulness.

RE: Polygamy?

Frank you re melting me as usual blushing teddybear

RE: TSCC-I'm not DEAD just BUSY!

Rammstein is my favorite band head banger head banger head banger

RE: murder i wrote

Shay, if you read the blog of Market about organizing a murder game here, you would know :) Then he chose me to be the murderer and I chose to "kill" Rummy. As nobody found out who was the murderer (me) despite of the clues Market gave, he asked me to reveal it was me. wink wave

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