Etlal I am here just to thank you for the high ratings of my pics. I am shocked that there are women who spy on other women's ratings and ask explanation from the men who have voted.
Funlaugh you can never be wrong about searching your way to be happy. If you need a girl from the Moon just to drink coffee with to be happy, this is your way, so stick to it!
You are not guilty that there are gold-diggers or women desperate to get married. It is their path.
Good luck with your search, since you know what you need, you have went half of the way!
Charisma you look and sound great! Just don't give up and an advice from me: be active in your search, check out profiles till your head goes dizzy, and do the first move (send a Hi there! flower) every time you see someone that worth it. It needs a hard work and a bit of luck :)
The thing that mostly struck me: "The females could only eat after the males have eaten. So imagine the dinner table after the males have already eaten. Can't describe."
Hi KemChi, you still sound and look to me as a very positive person. I am sorry to hear about your painful experience but as we say: You can't do something nice by force. So, choose the lesser evil. The path which will lead you to happiness. Everything that worries you and hurts you (regarding relationships) should be removed of your life. You put all your efforts but it's blocking your love life right now.
That's why I would always keep a healthy distance with exes! If they were not good enough to be with them why should I get messed with them anymore? Just more problems and confusions...
Better get focused on that great man "the apple" (I like the way you called him!) and don't look back!
P.S. You can use the ready-made phrases in the "flowers" options or just say Hello!, something like that... If the woman gets interested in your profile it would be enough for her to reply...
Jack, I used to chat a lot a couple of years ago but not anymore. It needs a lot of time and full concentration on the talk (when I chat with someone I respect them enough not to do other things). So I only chat with people who have passed the "filter" of a long enough email correspondence and even then I would chat something like once a week, not more.
About these people who want a pen pal but not chatting, I can understand them. Emailing and chatting are actually two different ways of interacting.
RE: Language I will never speak
Etlal I am here just to thank you for the high ratings of my pics. I am shocked that there are women who spy on other women's ratings and ask explanation from the men who have voted.