DO YOU CHAT?

If a person states in their profile that they are looking for “Talk/E-mail/Penpal” does this mean they are only seeking friendship and not looking for a relationship?
If that is the case and these people receive a flower or mail from members seeking the same type of connection does it really matter whether the person contacting them has a photo or not or whether the person contacting them is attractive to them or not?
It is not simply a question as to whether the two people find each other interesting to talk too, if so then why do people not reply when contacted for a chat?
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Dear Jack, Why does anyone do anything ? ? . .confused . . .To determine the inner workings of the human mind is a very complex and contraversal subject . If someone does not want any correspondence then let it go at that and move on .
Some people don't have time to chat, like myself. Chatting means sitting by computer for quite awhile and chat. I am here for talk, email, penpal, but, in fact, only penpal is what I want to do here.

It is so funny to me when I see that people who want only correspondence request that the other side should look so and so. But, we all have our expectations.
confused Good point Jack. handshake

I've always wondered the same myself. applausebeer
Jack, I used to chat a lot a couple of years ago but not anymore. It needs a lot of time and full concentration on the talk (when I chat with someone I respect them enough not to do other things). So I only chat with people who have passed the "filter" of a long enough email correspondence and even then I would chat something like once a week, not more.

About these people who want a pen pal but not chatting, I can understand them. Emailing and chatting are actually two different ways of interacting.
I regret I have not been specific in my meaning of the word "chat". By "chatting" I mean sending mail to each other via CS NOT chatting via sms or any other form of instant communication. Perhaps it is for this reason I have not received a response to several flowers I sent asking people if they would like to chat. Thank you all for pointing out my error in misinterpretation.
P.S. You can use the ready-made phrases in the "flowers" options or just say Hello!, something like that... If the woman gets interested in your profile it would be enough for her to reply...
Thank you Jana I shall try as you suggested. I see you have changed your profile name as I have done now that I am back following a years break from the site.
I deleted my previous profile for a couple of weeks then came back and had to take another nick :)
it dosent realy matter , if they want to connect with another just to prove life dose exist at some other pace apart from in their mind , just so they can justify their own existance ...

yes we are human , banana teddybear
Virgo tonight you are brilliant wow wow wow wow wow wow wow
should I post that one in the poerty section , sweety lips lips
Yes!! applause applause applause
alright , its posted ,kiss lips
unfortunately, its sad that we sit looking at screens, talking to
"virtual friends"...what did we do before the computer and internet was invented ?? Oh , i know.... we went out and met people for real !banana
Because at my age a virtual friendship is just fine. I don't have time to go out and visit "pals" and associates or wanting to waste gas and valuable car life. I like many of my virtual friends and gabbing with them through this cyber connection is just fine!

I send flowers out to my special cyber friends only and not to a whole bunch of people.
Great Virgo! wow wow wow hug
Regardless of what I am looking for in this site, I rather keep conversations / mails / chat with persons that have pics, it is only fair, I have pics on my profile therefore if someone is willing to communicate with me I expect them having pictures also, whenever I receive flowers/emails from persons without pics I simply reply politely nothing else, if they request more communication they have to show their pics for me, it is a must and it is not because of being attractive or not just for the simple fact that I like to see with who I am interacting with. wave
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