Honestly, I haven t followed your communication with Choco lately but my impression is that you both don t put any bad feelings in it, on the contrary :)
Waf I agree about the animal instinct and the therapy I am very thankful to CS for getting to know the first in me and others and for the second opportunity too
Many questions you asked and I think I have answered to all of them in this blog.
As about where I have copied the blog: from nowhere. I only summed up a couple of points I have read about aggressiveness and the interpretation of the topic is mine.
Saggi, thank you for your comment and yes your observations are right. First of all, you haven t witnessed the long story between me and Nessa here and I won t explain it here since the regular bloggers know it well. My involvement on the blog you mentioned was just to post a link with a serious study relevant to the topic about races and IQ. I was attacked by almost everybody there, not only by the lady you mentioned. I tried to express my point with logical reasons but (I am a human being!), finally I got involved in personal attacks. Exactly that blog made me thinking over my and others' aggressiveness. You are right that aggressiveness doesn t make anyone happy. Although, in my opinion, I won with arguments, I lost in terms of my nerves and efforts. I know my opponents haven t changed their opinion. So I should have stopped on time. The self-control is a key term in such situations.
Thank you for the nice words and you have a great day too!
I haven t been aggressive to everyone. But yes I have been to many and I explained my reason and I also mentioned the types of people I have been aggressive to. If you read my blog you ll see it
I know what you are talking about as my daughter is 3rd year studying in a university abroad. Skype and the emails are our connection. One gets used to everything, I just have dreams about her every night. The hardest is when she leaves after a stay here... My son is last year in the high school and also applying in universities abroad... just hope a bit closer so I would be able to go there too...
Spd, the bond between a mother and her children is out of space, time, borders... Just keep it live! Good luck!
Very exciting event and several broken records! Congratulations to the bold man Felix Baumgartner (BTW a very handsome man too!), his family, and Red Bull Stratos!
Hi Casander! Thank you for the comment and welcome to the blogs!
Glad to hear we share same musical preferences :) Being open to different styles, bands, artists, etc is great because you can widen your experience. The decades 50s-80s are legendary for rock music, and especially before its commercialization and digitalization. The last big trend was grunge (in my humble opinion), everything after that just re-combines old stuff. I am not too sceptic to contemporary music though, for example I adore Rammstein, I like very much Godsmack and even some death metal.
Spd, I think you shouldn t waste time and emotional efforts to solve a thing that you don t have a control over. It s already in the past. So, roughly said, who cares why? It was just not written for you to be together for longer.
Now you need to concentrate on yourself and not to lose strength for outside stuff. Leave the bitterness and self-pity if there is any, and love yourself with double strength. I firmly believe that every one we meet in our life brings some message to us and has some role in our life. Just be sure that you will meet your man at the right moment. Get better soon and never lose faith!
Dear Spd, so great to see you back and much better!!!
My impression is that the man in question supported you all the time and I am surprised to hear he gives it up! Human nature is a complex thing and especially men are usually weaker than women when there are health problems. As it was said here, maybe he s afraid that he ll be hurt again? Or maybe something in the way he feels towards you has changed, not directly connected with the illness but with all the stress about it? Or he got it earlier but says it now when you feel better... We can t predict things and especially feelings...
The great thing is you both had the courage to take the chance to be together. I think you had his support all this time. And now don t take this dramatically. You need a new start anyway... in everything. Good luck and stay strong and positive!
Gordonski I know what you mean. Unfortunately, I am hired in a publishing house and I have many bosses... In the cases I work for other companies from home, I feel what you describe but alas, it s just part time job that I do together with the main one...
Regarding your last comment: obviously you work and communicate with illiterate people. That s why you got such an idea for Eastern Europe Still waiting to hear details about your education level.
Aggressiveness
Thank you Cyn, and your comment is interesting too :) Different people, different style, including in aggressiveness. And some practice "free style"