The remedy, I think is to take time for you, take care of yourself and think you're more important than anything. most people would say forgive and forget but that's not easy and you cannot force yourself to that, just let it be for now, cry if you need coz in time you will not cry anymore, find interesting things to do and enjoy what's left without him, nature, literature, music, company of friends, shopping, travel..there are so many things to do with out him. Do not settle for anything less than you deserve and the right one will be there one day to offer you all.
well, well,well..I think we should not criticise eachother too much while nobody's perfect, we cannot know everything, and learning it's an everyday job for the one who likes to know more. I've read a comment here that someone asked about a highway from Poland to New York..well there is one, coz there is a place in NY state called Poland., and there is a place called Amsterdam and a place called Rotterdam. Why? Because the dutch grounded New York and it was called first ,, New Amsterdam'' I was born too in an east European country and I know what frustration means, and I do not deny it and I also not talk about the cultural level it is something related with the communist period which let us all frustrated, angry and bitter, but that needs a lot of time to change and most difficult is the change of mentality.
My previous profile was deleted two years ago, someone (I think) reported me and I couldn't make an other one till about three months ago this year. I couldn't use my older name so I choosed an other one, but I think some people here know me from my photos.
It's nothing about younger or older it's all about the person , and I think this guy didn't have any intention from the beginning on to have a longer relationship with you. When they go for reasons to brake up it's a big BS, when it's nothing there on feelings than it's easy to find reasons. Once one told me that our dogs wouldn't get along with each other ..just to brake up with me. When they start to say something just run it's nothing worth.
,,Think of the family problems and heartache, they will have, when you get enviouse seeing two lovers together. And the old fashioned life of 2 people together, until death do they part.''
Just reading your lines I got it that you're already sad about it.
What about the time when you'll be old and those girls would laugh at your face and no one will want you???
thank you girls for your words. In my words I would say I need to love, and I need to love someone else than only me, more of that I need to give love because that's what makes me more happy than I will received..
On this moment I have no choice of other choice, coz I'll take just what I think I deserve. To be honest I don't like it alone, I like to share my life with someone.
RE: Walks With Crazy
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