Theresa, history is interesting... I always impressed to those who is able to read and keep in mind the history of one culture. Shoot me not so friendly with books....
Oh I'm crying a lot for my country too like many other Indonesian. We realize that Indonesia is very rich country. We everything, everything mean everything. Oil, gold, cooper, silver, all kind of minerals, plantation and in addition to that we have quite numbers of population. But we left so far behind compared to singapore or japan, even with Malaysia.
So, I narrowing the way I see Indonesia to keep my mind positive, I stay away from politic issues as well as the development process such as infra structure and distribution of funds. I decided to come back home because I'm getting old. My productive age would reach the limit. I change my direction to education world by using all experiences I have. I maybe can't change indonesian mentality in general, but if I can produce few dozens of new generation who know exactly how to respect their time and environment, that would be a good start.
I just hope I won't have too much obstacles in achieving my dream....
Funlaugh... I think the possibly difficulties is when she is not she is you know so far... That would be shocking, no? I guess you can handle the rest.
That's ok Nam... I don't take it badly. And if you say you won't talk to me anymore, well basically I don't talk to anybody but that one from germany in PM. As far as the blogs... This is a public area. Even you block the person, they still can comment on our blog.... Btw, I think this is the 2nd time you wrote it in my blog that you won't talk to me anymore
Then I will open booking dot com find good flight ticket then open open agoda dot com find nice hotel (good location good price) put my hat, bermuda, swimming suit, umbrella, etc etc then I'm ready for holiday
I would re-evaluate my feeling if I'm full confident about him that he is the one to meet with, I go for it. But... You better go to her place for visiting the place having holiday in her country. Just in case she is not as good as you imagine she is, at least you have visited nice place eating good food exploring new country.... HOLIDAY
Namaron.... You are too serious we also need audience and you could be one... We never know maybe my blog is helping some people in here... I can't and I don't want taking other people to start the game... So I take myself as a start... Relax ok, it is not for you or people who doesn't want to join...
And Nam... I loose nothing whether it is live or dead for me... C'est egalle
This is also to know how good our skill on reading the message between the lines.... How good our feeling translating the story we read into imagination in our mind. For example, when Rob wrote a story "DON'T SLEEP" I imagined the character of Johny and loulou and angel and how you guts get together in the same neighborhood....
Fury....it's surprising that confession you made is a disconnected with the subject you are majoring in study. As psychologist, you should know and believe to what you study. I do believe on the quarter life crisis because I have been there and I married when I was 32.
All the mental reaction you have IS NORMAL, absolutely normal. Fear, worried and embarrass realizing that everybody around you have married is also normal. But take Theresa' advice. If you are focusing on what you want to achieve, you should not be bothered with the situation around you.
Say to your grandma mother aunts anybody, all your friends are marrying a man, you, at the moment are marrying your goal. As our proverb say "berenang sambil minum air"...
When you feel the pressure, just take a deep breath and smile girl
Impressive !!!! One information complete with the references.... I agree and I believe as all this theory is also mentioned in my holy Al-Qur'an..... Bravo
Loulou, 100% agree being single is about a choice. My blog is talking about the essential moment when women need the present of man and I'd like to know when or what would be the essential moment for men when he needs the present of woman...
Johny... Do you feel the different when you share your thoughts with someone you care (good friend) and someone you love (lover)? the feeling which appear in sharing moment is mostly fit with a present of woman (lover). No?
Simmo... Grateful to read your honest comment. Admit it or not, reading men's view about their feeling is helping us, women to understand you better. Every human is unique. I'm twin, still each of us is a unique. 100 men speak out 100 different cases about their feeling, 100 new knowledge women learn about you guys.
But hey... Take tiger or lion or leopard or jaguar or any cat family, it is female who do the hunting and male who protect the family. so... Equality is applied in all term... I feel touch when I see men crying. I see him like human, not like zombie....
Hey Rob.... Are you ytalking about DUTCH pillows??? How many you have ?? .... It's not bad idea to print out all the CS ladies picture (hope you got legal permit from them :grin)
When you need hugs from those ladies you can hug your lappy, right?
12121... Not only in real life where you can see clearly with eye of your friends after bad process of divorce. Here in CS, bloggers, we also can easily see some people say the same...
What I mean with my blog is "a certain moment", not all the time but a moment where you need the most a present of woman touch... What would be yours?
Home sweet home.....
Angel thank you dear....Theresa, history is interesting... I always impressed to those who is able to read and keep in mind the history of one culture. Shoot me not so friendly with books....