Essential Moment of women....

SINGLE WOMEN...like me and many others female bloggers here, are tougher than men in term of facing the need of company. Yes, not all but mostly. After the rupture of our relationship, we could stand stay single for quite some time. Some of them stay single for like years, some even decided to be a happy single women forever. They focusing themselves on family or work, no love story no dating no friend with benefit, just stay single mingle in groups of friends or communities. Some women have felt enough only to have a good family or good friend to rely on.

BUT... There is a certain moment, all these strong women, including me, need a present of a man... The essential moment that come in particular moment when we facing a tornado of problem, when we feel that we are walking on thinie tiny rope, we need a strong hand who could hold our hand and give his strength (could be just a whisper or hug or even staring eyes) to make us standing still.

I wonder, in what moment men need a present of a tender woman in their living single life...? confused

I know there are some men who even against his need of woman (he would said "I don't care this I don't care that I don't care the rest etc etc) but I guess he would also need a present of woman once in his life...

Men... Share with us your thought....
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No man is an island..
It's the most natural thing in the world to desire companionship. To share tender moments, affection, life challenges. Being single is the abnormality.
laugh Hope.... You call those who are living single or like "I am not looking" are abnormal... laugh
That's very cold of you Itchy Witchy. conversing
12121... Not only in real life where you can see clearly with eye of your friends after bad process of divorce. Here in CS, bloggers, we also can easily see some people say the same...

What I mean with my blog is "a certain moment", not all the time but a moment where you need the most a present of woman touch... What would be yours?
laugh Itchy... Often I think the same. I don't know why... laugh

MADDOG... It's not our fault as many men show their coldness too grin
What I'm sure of is my kids need the presence of a father figure in their lives.....

Sorry, I know this is for men only but I think men need the presence of women more than the other way round?

However, if it is left unattended the need, I think men would soon discover, "Hey, it's not THAT bad after all. No nagging, constant complaining and all that!" grin
There are many times I go out and do fun things by myself. Every once in awhile I miss sharing these fun experiences with my partner. Out of nowhere the feeling arrives within me. :) Other than that...hmmm. laugh
The last time I Googled this subject it was a virtual tie in the few surveys i bothered to read! That's right 50% to 50%! That was about a year ago. It may have changed. But probably not!
Hey Rob.... Are you ytalking about DUTCH pillows??? How many you have ?? laugh.... It's not bad idea to print out all the CS ladies picture (hope you got legal permit from them :grin)

When you need hugs from those ladies you can hug your lappy, right? hug
Simmo... Grateful to read your honest comment. Admit it or not, reading men's view about their feeling is helping us, women to understand you better. Every human is unique. I'm twin, still each of us is a unique. 100 men speak out 100 different cases about their feeling, 100 new knowledge women learn about you guys.

But hey... Take tiger or lion or leopard or jaguar or any cat family, it is female who do the hunting and male who protect the family. so... Equality is applied in all term... I feel touch when I see men crying. I see him like human, not like zombie.... grin
Johny... Do you feel the different when you share your thoughts with someone you care (good friend) and someone you love (lover)? the feeling which appear in sharing moment is mostly fit with a present of woman (lover). No? smile
Loulou, 100% agree being single is about a choice. My blog is talking about the essential moment when women need the present of man and I'd like to know when or what would be the essential moment for men when he needs the present of woman...
Simmo

hug hug hug hug hug hug hug

Spark... What is your essential moment when you feel you need woman the most? When you sad? When you win loterei ? grin
I met up 2 people for coffee last night, 1 male, 1 female. All of us were single and the topic turned to relationships etc.

The guy said how much he missed someone special in his life. I had met some guys who just don't want a relationship or any closeness to someone.

We're back to different people want different things in their life. Looking for someone with similar wants and needs is what I do. As long as someone is upfront with what they want, all is ok but unfortunately that's not always the case.
When you dont have a partner .... you want one, and when you have a partner ... you dont!

Men are more needy (IMO) than women, all be from a companionship position as they get older.

It has been said that men would rather sleep with a different woman every night than stay with one partner, whereas women would rather sleep with one man every night rather than have different partners.
Wallops.... bouquet

KN... maybe their heart have been freeze by the hurtful experience

Solamente... isn't it weird, no? grin
I don't think that's the reason for guys who go out to get laid by someone different every week. dunno laugh
"I wonder, in what moment men need a present of a tender woman in their living single life...?"

blushing Usually in the first 4 minutes of morning wakeup. rolling on the floor laughing banana
KN.... Agreeee grin maybe that's the reason they called that way laugh

Ken.... 4 essential minutes... Everyday, it could be a lot of minutes in a year grin
When I am ready or the time is right I suppose. I won' t know till it happens. Besides some dating I' ve been single for about 5 years now. I think I' m ready.smile
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