Thanks to all who have popped in and taken the time to post.
Serenity thank you for your kindness. It's appreciated.
For all the knights in shining armour ,I salute you for your gallantry ,in coming to the rescue of any damsel in distress.
I try to put things in perspective and can see that there are those that have great respect for each other, and good solid friendships.
This is to all our credit that we care about each other, even on the internet.
However I still feel that by constantly replying to comments, however derogatory, causes more problems. People hate to be ignored,it foils their plan .
"Mama always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get." Forest Gump.
The best Christmas present ever!
No just a sense of humour.