I think the ability to control the emotion it would be depending on his maturity level. And according to me, some of factors that shape the matureness is a family background, education and society where he is belong. Many of men I met, they were marute in age, but they way they're thinking was not as mature as their age. Hope you understand what I mean...
1st Lesson abt positive thinking... 2nd Lesson abt love and hate. I dont curse my enemies but only hate. When I hate someone, I treat them like thw wind but nothing. I will not to and consume my energy for that, Many other things need my energy, so dont waste it for nothing...
I meet guys at work .... but it is not easy for me to make friend. I know them, them know me but only say hi and talk if necessary. in supermarket? I dont talk with stranger... but here ? putting comment just like talking with someone, without have to know each other...
to be honest, for me finding someone out there to be my friend is not as easy as here on CS. here.. I can talk with many peoples without seeing the background as long as they are respect, nice, polite and friendly.
I only joint CS, no other dating site. I talk with some guys from CS, some of them asked to meet in real life. if I feel there is a chemistry between us, albeit just little, I would agree to meet. But if I feel no chemistry, I would not meet them. I met someone wonderful, and we become good friend until now. I have met him more than 3x as good friend but we could not be a couple and we respect each other as a person. he is not in CS anymore now, but we still meet some times.
GGggrrrrrr......
Angeeeeellll.....How are you dear?