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Another case of 'quality' being preferable to 'quantity'
People maybe don't want their most private and sensitive stuff out in public as a rule, but a good old fashioned whinge doesn't really make people all that emotionally vulnerable.
However, I have had a couple of "successful" relationships but they were short-term.
Now, talking about "sucess" vs. "failures"... I don´t consider any of the meetings I have had complete failures as one always learns from experiences and nothing is a "failure"!
We just learn that we are not compatible, that´s all, and that there must be someone out there who is better suited.
but since im not a Gentlemen ,Im free to speak about it
I don`t date
not by choice...
I like having communication here with friends. Before I came to CS I had once been on a speed dating in Vienna. This kind of dating is based on the idea of experts stating it would only need a few seconds that a couple would realize if they suit to each other or not. Several men sit in a row, and each woman moves from one to the other. Each has a sand glass on the table and the conversation starts and ends till the sand is down. Then one switches to the next. It was fun, but didn't work out. Those who had given their visiting card to me I didn't want to meet for a second time.
Me...I never actually contacted any women..
I rarely browse profiles, I prefer to sit on my pedestal and wait for them to come to me
Did contact a guy a while back, shortly after he hopped on a plane and flew thousands of kms for a two week date
Maybe not the most ideal way to search for a partner but if people have a light-hearted approach, it should be an enjoyable experience
NOTE: on both instance, I never aimed at meeting anyone and has blocked the whole world, but miracles do happen and I am so happy.
So to your question? This site works. I have 7 couples on the Poetry Corner and they're all my friends who got lucky and married and still communicating outside of CS and best friends..
Good luck to everyone..and you Ian, I am sure, you will find her as she will find you.
I talk with some guys from CS, some of them asked to meet in real life. if I feel there is a chemistry between us, albeit just little, I would agree to meet. But if I feel no chemistry, I would not meet them.
I met someone wonderful, and we become good friend until now. I have met him more than 3x as good friend but we could not be a couple and we respect each other as a person. he is not in CS anymore now, but we still meet some times.