Yes, you can really find true love online after a lot of work, but at some point, one will have to move where the other is, not as easy as it sounds, especially one country to another.
Men and women who post outdated pictures are practicing a form of dishonesty. Any picture posted should be up-to -date, not doctored, and their own. When I see these outdated pictures, I do not bother to contact them, even if I am attracted by their profile. Ditto for pictures of animals or sites.
Most look for "looks." My best relationships come out of a connection to the person, because in the end, all women are beautiful, with makeup or not. Makeup may attract the man, but she better have more going for her then that.
I don't think that you love her; I think that you are obsessed with her. Some of what you said was not clear in meaning to me, but the gist of it says that she doesn't love you. Love is a melding of the emotions, sharing never one-sided. Obsession is filling your mind with one idea or emotion, ignoring reality. You sound like a guy a lot of women would like---just pay attention to the comments the woman said above, especially the one about being a doormat. Eventually you will find someone who appreciates you.
Cailin, it is this line that suggests to me that you may not care enough about yourself." In fact, were it not for the hope of finding Him here (and the fear of disappointing Him) I'd have long since departed. This heart beats for Him...." Instead of having a preconceived idea of what he is or looks like, I would suggest you just take the man in your mind when you meet him and get to know him, like the date you had on another blog. One last thing: it is my opinion that a man who thinks in such a one-dimensional way is not the one you seem to be looking for. The mind-body connection is not dichromic; it is a synthesis. Keep posting. Your postings are worth reading.
They want to create seeds that only they can make grow---for a price. They even want to outlaw natural seeds, saying they are not as good(healthy)as theirs.
You said a lot of things here. First let me suggest that your definitions are semantic. Second, it is not for him that your heart should beat but first for yourself. You imply that you care more about him than yourself, but that is neither love for him nor especially for yourself. Everyone gets hurt at love, but that is no reason not to fall in love again. If you really believe in a twin flame, then open yourself to falling in love again. All your posts point to a generic lady with an open mind. Why would you confine your thoughts to just one? Consider there is perhaps more than one, just that you have to find one near you.
If a picture can be doctored, false or old, then why do you think that merely posting a picture completes a profile? You know no one on here, even whether they are male or female, until you actully meet them. Further, the answers to your question posted so far show really good reasons why people do not post a picture. By the way, I have gotten more responses without a picture than with one. Have a great day.
The bottom line is this: you must meet this person, whether the distance is 20 miles or 5000. Then---should you be lucky to fall in love with one who falls in love with you---one of you must move, or the relationship cannot survive. That is the problem. It is not so easy to move either a short distance or one longer, especially to another country.
It is not just on here but on other sites as well, Georgia-Ohio, that both men and women do not read profiles. They both look at the pictures and make their adult decision to ignore or pursue the person, based only on a picture. The irony is that a lot of these pictures are outdated or even false.
Nothing is wrong with either your profile nor your picture. Though your posts have usage errors, this is a minor thing, something to be expected when one writes in a foreign language, Your profile is very good. Keep the picture. I see you attracting someone your age with intelligence. Be patient.
Some people do lie about age: men and women. But the other side of the coin: I am 58, but do not "look" 58. The other day at a dance, a woman said to me:"You look like a kid with a mustache." Needless to say, I did not ask her out.
The distance issue is absolutely important. Too many on these sites just want to do small talk or tease, not having any intention of ever meeting anyone. I did not get that feeling from reading what you wrote; you seem serious. Only you can know what you are looking for. Keep trusting your own instincts.
This is a common misconception. The real question to ask is why people put so much stock in a picture. I "talked" with a woman for days before I was able to post a picture. When I did post one and told her, she did not even write back. When I wrote her again, she replied:"I don't find you attractive." Ironically, I did not see her as attractive, just liked the way she wrote. Women tell me that they have the same experience.
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RE: Falling in Love online???
Yes, you can really find true love online after a lot of work, but at some point, one will have to move where the other is, not as easy as it sounds, especially one country to another.