I only have few female friends in my life,we knew each other before together went to primary school and then middle, high school... At that old time, we were limited talking to boys,so I am still puzzled how to keep pure friendship with them...
Profile is like an indistinct image,If wanted to make it clear, we need use other ways of communication to see and to feel in real that how far and how close or similar to his/her profile...
Someone said;"See through the appearance to perceive the essence." Err, but it's not an easy job for me...
Thanks for your concern and support. Not yet. The bone ash of my dad hasn't buried, will wait for my sister they will back in the middle of this month and stay in Shanghai next 2 months then. Sadly to say she is not my sister any more if you understand.
I met my Ex by an introducer--one of my old female classmate. As I didn't want a guy doing the same job with me at the same company.So introduction seemed the only way for me at that time...
I asked myself also, answering your Q might be have another blog, Now I try in simple here.
I interested in cat many years ago...
Last year that cat when I found him who was already living there (That basket)for a few days, the 2 of my neighbous fed him everyday before I knew him, he seemed used to his situation: eat,play,sleep... free as he liked I meant. I let him into my home twice and found he was too activity which worried me a little.Cos I focus on my dad who was at home.He looked healthy enough not like the one I adopt. he can survived himself in the nature...
This one when I found him, at first I was not sure I would adopt him,I only have one apartment. That was our national day which was wet seemed rain again, I carried it into that basket under my building,wanted him in safe from rain... instead,he was not run away, busy to clean his hairs even not looked at who took him there, hmm, a love clean cat,I thought, at that moment I changed my mind,I took him upstares ,and put it in a small box at the balcony to see if he wanted to run.but he continued busy to clean his hairs and ignored where he was been. then slept there the all day and night without eating any food. More important, my dad was staying in the hospital those days,which was given me a chance to familar with him. Otherwise I dared not to carry him back...
Now we are familar with each other, I like his character. Different from the prior one, he never shows his belly, he likes to play with me,if I am busy he plays alone or sleeps,he rarely bothered me if I am in busy... He is still close to me liked I was his mom... he can stay with me all his life as long as he likes, but if oneday he wants outside world, I can let him go...
More sweet is we both like to watch program about animals. But sometimes it is not the easy time to let him calm dowm... You see,he jumped to the screen.
Happy CHinese New Year to all of you ! and thanks for your blessings.
It's also a year of my dad belongs to. We had a quiet New Year's Eve, no other to came. No sound of firecrackers.( be forbidden cos of the polution of the air ),but I was still waken up several times by the sound of dad's cough... I do wish him good in health and everything goes well!
RE: Friends
Hi, Cat;I only have few female friends in my life,we knew each other before together went to primary school and then middle, high school... At that old time, we were limited talking to boys,so I am still puzzled how to keep pure friendship with them...