Claustrophobia and arachnophobia. One can commit the perfect murder should they want to get rid of me. Lock me in a room with a spider, I'll be dead... guaranteed
Disaffection publicly displayed irks me... seriously. Why anyone should go to such lengths to shut down someone, is beyond me. Walking away is not a weakness, it takes a hell of a lot more than to stick around pretending something is okay when it clearly is not
Bearing grudges and harbouring hate is harmful to oneself. Me... I forgive but will never forget why I had to forgive in the first place. If I don't protect my heart, who will...
Having said that, I'm still guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve, but once I'm done, I'm done. I never turn back.
Being at peace with yourself is far more important than trying to be someone you don't know and most likely don't even like. If you want a foolproof recipe for disaster, do things to please others...
I'm pretty much a six or nix type myself. All or nothing, black or white, grey areas make me uncomfortable. Does that define my personality? When weird enters the door, does normal leave...
Weird in a normal way does it for me. Wait is that normal in a weird way
See! I don't even make sense when it comes to 'normal'
Don't worry about people not believing you. Those who know you won't need an explanation and those who don't, won't believe you anyway. Knowing the truth amidst consumptions and rumours, is always a good feeling. On the other hand, jumping to conclusions, is never a good thing. Enjoy the fact that you know the truth.
Most wonderful things are preceded by chaos. Hopefully, things will settle soon...
Cat, when there are children involved, it puts a different spin on things. Whatever her reasons, I'm sure they're good enough for her. She is obviously going through a hard time. Maybe she needs time to work things out herself before talking to someone else.
Speaking for myself, if there were any signs of incompatibility I would've reconsidered. Marriage is a big, life-changing decision which involves more than one person.
I try to live by the following motto... Aikona hesitate, beta wena losityt!
Johnny, as for your comment on ladies vs women... there is a significant difference. But it is not gender based, it works both ways. I know a lot of males, but in all honesty, not all of them are men. Those are very few and far between...
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is that normal in a weird way 
as for the fun part... no comment 
RE: This day only happens once every 4 years
Nah thanks