usha123 Blog Comments (2,277)

RE: a blog about stuff

Now I have to Google FWB.

You are a smart woman Palm. You know what you want and you are not afraid to get what you want. I have been through hard times too when I left my husband with my four daughters. Those times are the ones that made me than break me. You are an unusual person with so much talent and so much strength.

RE: A divorced women deserves a good man?

Rose, whether your child is a male or a female, their safety and well-being is the most important thing.

Can you trust that person around your child is the number one concern. In my opinion of course.

Of course you deserve to be loved by a good man.

RE: Going To Be Interesting Times

You will be fine Track.

I think it's a smart move.

RE: The difficulty with finding someone online

I am waiting to see your list of demands.

RE: "NINE LITTLE BIRDIES"

I wonder too.

RE: men and women parts

Palm, nice to see you.

Seriously? I really thought you knew body parts quite well. I was never afraid of seeing the mythical sea monster up close and personal. (not any and every monster though.)

Enjoy your amazing discoveries.

RE: Humble

I don't read profiles Biff.

I only check the age of the people who write. If I am interested I will find out more about them while communicating.

Humble is better than down to earth. I don't know where they came down to earth from.

RE: "AND THEN"..("A DISTANT SPLASH")..(9)

Nice place Nam.

Enjoy!

RE: Africa Day

Luke, Thank you for your comment. I am good.

Just replied here because I want my blog to go to the second page. Take care and have a great week.

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Thank you Rob,

Very helpful.

RE: "ANOTHER WATERFALL DAY"..(4)

Miseries of humans and humanity.

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I am really sorry KN, I missed your comment.

Thank you so very much for the input.

Bella,

Thank you very much for your comment and suggestions too.

RE: this from a woman's mouth.

I don't shop until I drop ash. I drop out of shopping itself when I can't handle the baggage.

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Thank you Blue sky.

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Molly, we are having two weddings. One has to be formal. That's a traditional Hindu wedding. Because she's marrying a Hindu. The second one is a Christian wedding, but not at church because he is Hindu. That doesn't have to be formal. So all your suggestions are helpful.Thank you!

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Oh no Biff!

I am a honourable widow too.

To be honest I stayed married because I wanted everything picture perfect for my children. Their graduations, their weddings, with both their parents by their side. I know I was asking for too much from life. He passed before even one of them graduated.

There's a blog deep down about picture perfect reality. It's not easy to put it in words.

I hope I will have time today to sit down with both of them and word this and finalize. I have noted all your suggestions. Thank you.

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Bloody, why not church? I thought you wanted to impress the priest. This is the day.

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Mic, if you knew my daughter.
God will take a AWOL, if he had to deal with her.

It's her day, it's what she wants. I am wondering why I gave my consent. if I didn't, they would have eloped like I did and I would have avoided all the drama.

RE: this from a woman's mouth.

No Johnny, it's not really true. Almost everyone in this world is greedy. Most people want more than what they need. It's just a matter of how much more they want than what they need.

As Mahatma Gandhi said, The world has enough for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed.

Now I made your blog more reasonable, relevant and not gender biased.

I have to be your press secretary not running mate.

But to stay on your topic, I am a woman. I want, not need, only one man. So I am not greedy.

RE: "RAMBLIN MAN"..("RAMBLE ON")..(155)

It's okay Nam, at least you know that you are rambling.

Keep it up.

RE: if you had to choose -

Biff, I will gladly choose not being able to speak.

If I couldn't stop saying everything I thought about... Oh dear, oh dear, devil might even adopt me to be his sister.

RE: I love to go a wandering.

Go on please.!

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Thank you Bearwoman,

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Thank you Mic, I know you understand the situation better. No matter how much we pack up the past and move forward, when there are kids involved it's not easy. The gap, the absence, become more obvious in these occasions and the emotions are not easy to contain.
Thank you. I think I know how to go about with this now.

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Harbal,

Just said hi, I won't jump between you and Sea.

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Cerva, Congratulations and best wishes for both of you. May her new life be filled with love, joy and everything good.

You are brave. I won't be giving her away. I can't handle that.

All my best wishes for you.

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Seaworthy, I can do with a laugh. I can't be serious for long even to save my life.

I think I got what you are trying to say. Thank you.

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Thank you Jim. Seeing you after a long time. Hope everything is good.

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Thank you Berry.

I hope you are good. Didn't know what to say in one of your blogs. Hope the feeling has come to past. Take care.

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Thank you Johnny.

The thing is there are lots of emotions involved. During the weekend we passed the cemetery while we were going to see the dress designer. Out of no where she said, she hates that area. So, I know she's also missing him and feeling the lacuna. It's not easy. But the show must go on.

At the end of the day, it's not about me or her father. It's her day. A new beginning. A new life. No body can take her father's place. Our love, honour, respect and gratitude will be in our hearts always.