To my beloved across the sea No greater love you have shown me Your truth cuts like a knife and will forever be a part of my life How I hate your ways but deep down inside your beauty will always fill my days.
Yes, I shall have many regrets but you my love will be hard to forgets To consider of all the souls I have encountered here I am glad I met you dear
Yes I will always be a thorn in your side and you will probably be looking and hoping to ride or perhaps dance with me between a satin slide
If it were not for the shimmering sea that seems to be a barrier between thee which I know is just an excuse from me
No matter where our lives may lead and the passions we still need No matter the many new faces we may encounter and if the mountains crumble to the sea there will always be you and me
The video gives a whole new meaning of understanding women however, It's easier to build a 6 lane bridge from US to Europe or Asia than to understand women and their ways.
DeeDee I feel you are closer to a truth than perhaps we all know and for some they just learn it sooner or later and find they were never alone. In search of who we are we find that we are all interconnected and perhaps not so alone. Yes, there are all kinds here and have their motives why they are here. To some their goal is to rush into a conventional relationship of normal dating and doing things together etc. which can lead to marriage. To others it may just be a place to hangout where everybody knows your name and always glad you came. So, whatever feeds us it serves us and to love one another without having special relationships we learn we have all we need. Many who cling onto a special relationship tend to get too absorbed trying to so hard to maintain it they lose the whole idea of why they are together in the first place. Finding balance in all things and within ourselves is the best we can offer. Perhaps in that search of finding that balance there are those who need more help and hence why people come into our lives for that reason. We should at least I should be more grateful for those who do come to me in my hour of need than to worry about how long they choose to hang around. Nothing as we understand things today do not last. So, its best to just go for the ride until the driver feels we had enough or we found our stop and want to get off. The choice we make is getting on the bus with someone or walk alone. On that note its best not to run this topic to the ground for I think I got most of my answer.
Be mindful of the track one is on. If its working for you great if not then time to switch tracks. Overall some want to try to be the engineer of other's but, dont always see the break in the track leading to a cliff.
Lindsay let me clarify, No I did not write this it was sent to me. I may have embellished a few words on it. Nevertheless it matters not who wrote it what matters is the message. We are all on this train and most probably especially myself don't belong on it. We choose who we want to ride with and sometime we don't have a choice for its already made for us. In the end when the train ride ends we all get to evaluate the quality of ride we had. We shall wonder if the light at the end of the tunnel is another train coming to run us over or take us onto another journey
I think you come to the wrong place to find anyone. Unless you meet someone near home maybe. Unless you have unlimited finances to run all over the world looking for your girl its a hopeless cause. Besides if you or anyone had that capacity they wouldn't be here on this site.
The OP may not have much of a point to make but, to consider how people have a choice to harbor pain or let it go is often difficult. As for me in my learning experience there are two most loyal women in my life who offer much pain I call them emotional and physical. They will never leave me they dont judge me or criticize me nor consider me annoying. My girl emotional understands and shows more compassion than most people. My girl physical is there to remind I am alive but not so well and often shapes my emotional girl. In essence, if I never meet up with a real woman up close and personal here I at least have these two to show for it.
America is predominately English speaking. As for MexiCalifornia why should people visiting be forced to speak spanish? How many spanish illegals loitering around California who are interested in learning Vietnamese or English? Probably slim to none.
The Holy instant is the Holy Spirit's most useful learning device for teaching you love's meaning. For it's purpose is to suspend judgement entirely. Judgement always rests in the past, for past experience is the basis on which you judge. Judgement becomes impossible without the past, for without it you do not understand anything. The past is the ego's chief learning device for it is in the past that you learned to define your own needs and acquire methods in meeting them on your own terms. --- A Course in Miracles
Each day should be devoted to miracles. The purpose of time is to enable you to use time constructively. It is thus a teaching device and a means to an end. Time will cease when it is no longer useful in facilitating learning--- A Course in miracles
In layman terms: if we let go our past hurts, resentments, hatred etc. and allow love's healing come into our lives by making a choice to stop living in the past and making false assumptions that our present and future will be like our past we can learn to embrace the "NOW"
Many set terms and conditions for seeking special relationships as the ego dictates. For example making unrealistic expectations upon oneself and on others just to have a date? pretty pathetic in my opinion. Why do we do it? because of our past experiences mostly bad. We tend to use our past as a frame of reference and we can dictate the terms and conditions of engagement.
Time is here to bring healing of the past the holy instant can speed things up by making a decision to show us our thinking is not working for us. Our attitudes and perceptions can be helped to see more clearly if we are willing to accept love when offered. Love has no ego to bruise nor is threatened of losing anything. Instead love knows only to give.
It is true that many will waste much time focused on the past that they have no room in their lives for anything or anyone else as they let their lives escape them living in a vacuum of the past and make their comfort zone accordingly. Overall we create our fate by our choices.
Its kind of like the military "hurry up and wait" Everybody is in hurry to go nowhere or to stop and wait. Yet, this senario is just the beginning on the road to socialized medicine and the quality of care everyone will get under any medical care system no matter if they call it Obamacare or Trumpcare.
Imagine the credit debt. The US is in a trillion dollar deficit already. Overall the debt would be shifted in buying Gucci bags and Jaguars. There still would be cat fights among women and the men would still be treated like a praying mantis. Once they serviced the women off with the head!!!
A nice walk may help clear the mine or make one think too much. Taking the time to smell the roses is fine but when I see the same thing in my community I feel surrounded and very alone. Many moons I wrote a poem about that but unfortunately lost it. Perhaps I should post something again related to it.
Ok how about we all opt for a wet t-shirt contest and all the gorilla of our dreams and the tarzans of the CS jungle will vote for the quality of pics shared accordingly. However, the boys here will have to keep their water pistol in their pocket because their aim may be a bit off!! Besides we dont want any trigger happy trolls and safari hunters shooting off their pistol and making a mess of themselves. The CS jungle for the most part is already messed up enough!!
Tarzan and the apes are nothing to monkey around about. If Jane and Kashish along all the pretty girls here in the CS jungle would post a pic of their chest I am sure most would get lots of attention from guys and girls and maybe a few monkeys here.
Freedom of press and speech is still free until further notice. Any gripes and opposing views either for or against the OP is optional to everyone maybe even to Molly and the rest of the regular cronies here.
Many shall read and still will not understand. Daniela saw it right away as she knows the blogger all too well. Perhaps it is for only the select few who has understanding. Yet, how shall one break it down to 2nd grade level to suit the masses?
Unfortunately many are rather melodramatic about their lives including myself. Who among us is without flaw? Yes everyone puts out their laundry list of everything they don't want in their lives because they already are suffering. Most just want a magic wand to wave all their problems away. A new relationship a home or job or something to escape the mess they made by their own doing and choices. There are 3 kinds of people out there Perpetrators victims and rescuers they are interchangeable based on various circumstances. Drama of life will always seem to be a constant in the human universe. The profiles that complain the most about it could be a warning sign they are full of it and themselves. Yet, this is supposed to be a dating social site so it claims hence, I wonder what is the point of being here? To learn about and be compassionate to one another rather than judging and criticizing. I find it more frustrating when people stop to window shop and I admit I do it to. However, when trying to initiate a conversation nobody responds. The lights are on but nobody seems to be home. I am aware CS posts fake test profiles from time to time. What they test for I know not. Anyhow, to me this blog has it's merit so I commend the OP. In a world gone crazy with war terrorism social Injustice and corruption it would be nice to have a place to discuss anything and everything that burdens us. There can be beauty and healing if we all work in harmony. Be the change you want to see in the world.
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Yes Marlindap people get into their comfort zone yet I wonder how comfortable they really are in their zone.