I am actually grateful of those who replied because in a way it is revealing and informative of how some of you ladies really think and feel about the boys here and yourselves. The old adage comes to mind Don't walk in behind me I may not lead nor don't walk in front of me I may not follow but just walk beside me and be my friend. Women today are enlightened and empowered to dance by themselves and found comfort in that. They don't need a fool to give them self value. Not all the poetry and song in the world a man could write to show their passion and adoration phases them anymore though it seems. I guess it's going to require much more than a song and dance to break through the walls of complacency to impress you women.
Yep, God forbid we exert ourselves to move out of our comfort zone. Imagine the new world wouldn't have been discovered if a few did not step out of their comfort zone. Considering Australia was a penal colony they let prisoners run the show. Of which they had little choice. Hence, they played with the cards that were dealt and found their comfort zone and now they have beautiful cities. They didn't let the prisoner/victim mentality dictate their destiny.
Well this is dedicated to someone I know who knows me better than I know myself. Hence a lesson of who has my back and to recognize the value in our one time friendship. It is good to see you had such a long time friendship of 42 years. Imagine if marriages would last as long.
That long Dani ? My how time flies. Very sad though in all that time I still haven't learned. Maybe in my next life I will finally see. Yet, then again I may come back still having no eyes or a kind heart.
Disillusioned mostly Lindsay. Overall if there was another similar site I would probably find the same I find here. I give up on placing expectations. Two years ago I probably found only one that I could relate to and though she still adds her two bits in the community on occasion offering her wisdom and horses I foolishly pushed her away. Yes I would not be missed here at all. There are sheep and there are goats as the sheep are easily swayed by the loudest or popular shepherd, goats tend to climb their own mountain alone always searching for a better truth.
Well it's a forgone conclusion that human nature always desires what it can't have and tends to push away what is readily accessible. It's the chase not the catch. Plus we are what we attract so that means I must be a whacko in comparison to everyone else. Then again who among us is without sin?
Well then at least I am not the only one which makes me feel better that I am not going crazy. I guess it's just another reason to use caution and take people here as flakes and fakes looking to build email lists for spam. I love the ones who write and say they are interested and leave bogus emails to run off site and the email address doesn't work.
If you stop looking and stop worrying about the women here eventually they come around. Everyone is here for different reasons. Overall it easier to build a bridge from Albania to Australia for example than it is to figure out the motives of women here.
There are many flowers here each to her own beauty and scent and yet, the weeds and thistles that clutter the way to embrace them are barriers they build to keep the harvester from entering their domain. The veggies are the bums who sit on their rump vegging out their minds on stupidity trying to impress the flowers. Until both the veggies and flowers learn they need each other and need to work together to clear the weeds that clutter our hearts and minds the greater the barrier becomes.
Where do you get muscle cramps from this blog? If anything it may cramp the style of many or probably cramps from that speacial time of the month who knows?
What is sad is the family members of the victims can sue the company for everything it has but won't bring back the lives lost. Regarding any state visit of the emporer Trump yes, they make certain streets are secured and cleared for 10 square miles. Why did not the bridge builder secure the area just the same for a few weeks to run the stress tests? Apparently, they were so proud of their new bridge and wanted to show off its grandeur but, skipped the safety tests. I have yet to see or hear from any spokesman from the company unless I missed that part. I know many were apologetic but, it proves haste makes waste. Forever that spot will be leaving a ghastly mark long after the cleanup. If I were a student there it would be hard to concentrate on studies knowing what kind of mess is outside the windows of the school building. I find it unique that 5000 to 10000 years ago man was able to build structures that are still standing today with no apparent cranes or heavy equipment like we have today. Perhaps the present engineers need to study how they did it then.
Usually the answer walks hand in hand with the question. Yes, the decision is how we respond to the answer. Daniela you are way too smart for the average bear.
Ah! But the most stupid thing anyone can do knowing all the frogs out there is when you find a princess or prince that is right for you don't kick them in the teeth once you have their attention. The old saying goes "beggars can't be choosers." How many tend to take for granted what is given to them and always dreaming the grass is greener elsewhere? The universe never gives us what we think we might want but, it does give us what we need.
As some have said here that we follow the natural order of things. I admit, I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer, or the brightest bulb in the box but, we all have our own perception of what we think beauty, friendship, and love, and that so called spiritual connection along with punctuation. Overall, fools are easily blinded by past experiences and use them as a basis in deciding whether to create new experiences.
Ultimately, I think because of that they sabotage their efforts. For now I will just keep banging my head against the wall because it feels better when I stop!!
Knowing motives and intent is an obvious concern. If individuals here have a hard enough time making friends usually they put up a defense until proven otherwise. Yes unfortunately nobody can be taken at face value anymore. Yet, people still want to be given a benefit of a doubt.
Salt in the ocean comes from rocks on land. The rain that falls on the land contains some dissolved carbon dioxide from the surrounding air. This causes the rainwater to be slightly acidic due to carbonic acid (which forms from carbon dioxide and water). ... Sodium and Chloride are 'salty.'
Daniela I thought you have or had a horse that ruined you long ago. Women dont need many men or horses to mess up their lives it only takes one to do the job and forever it seems to shape their perception and outlook on the female gender. The same applies with men. There are many ladies to choose from but it only takes one to make a man out of a boy. Maybe one day when boys learn to put the seat up or down when appropriate, the girls will finally see the value in men.
Here's a New Year resolute idea which is to let go all useless people here who could care less what anyone has to say or what you feel aside those of the selective few. Give up well wishing to people who will not reciprocate. Oh and find a friend closer to home who doesn't live 4000 miles away. Hmmm I guess it means giving up CS altogether for me.
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