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How many people here who get views from others and find their profiles are deleted or hidden before you get a chance to learn who was checking you out? I get that alot. If it were not for fake profiles or hidden or deleted ones I wouldn't get any attention at all. It is clear of what kind of impact I am making here. For if I only seem to attract flakes and fakes and deleted people along with complaints from real people perhaps this site is not working for me. Or its what I am putting out there that is sabotaging my efforts.Clearly the answer usually comes with the question.
Insanity is hoping for some sense of understanding of this site and the people who play here.
Overall I will live to regret posting this.
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Could it be that you're only attracted to the ones that you CANNOT get?
Plus we are what we attract so that means I must be a whacko in comparison to everyone else. Then again who among us is without sin?
Akeldama, you seem to be focusing much on the negative end of the CS spectrum.
If you're not having fun amongst us then I'm sure there's a better place for you somewhere. Nit that I'm encouraging you to leave, just that you seem unhappy here.
I'd recommend for you to take the good from the bad. Just saying.
I give up on placing expectations. Two years ago I probably found only one that I could relate to and though she still adds her two bits in the community on occasion offering her wisdom and horses I foolishly pushed her away.
Yes I would not be missed here at all.
There are sheep and there are goats as the sheep are easily swayed by the loudest or popular shepherd, goats tend to climb their own mountain alone always searching for a better truth.
Timing is everything on synchronicity Akel. Time will work in your favor as long as you pull yourself on the positive side.
She's from Spain and a very spiritually balanced person. If I'm right on my guess.
She's active here and provides a very loving and intellectually stimulating opinions.
Just don't get stuck in your illusions.
She's real and if it's meant to be, it will happen.
Good luck.
I would say this has something to do with it...ask yourself what you have changed between now and then...if you're still hung up on someone else...why would someone want to be second best?....
I don't even go to the "who's viewed me" section to see who's viewed my profile any longer-not interested in knowing any longer. But, when I used to go to this section, it has never happened a user to hide their profile or cancel their membership. However, it did happen users of the CS who got in touch with me though the private messaging service after a few days for most who sent me a message which I did not respond to hide or cancel their membership.
How do you know their profiles are or have been deleted and not just hide their profile?.
However..if a profile is deleted then it will be written as you open an email or a blog for example.
And on the who's viewed me list there will be a question mark where the pic should be.
You have a way with kindness and positive air permeates in the surrounding with your beautiful soul and generous heart.
You are one good reason I am enjoying being around here.
Thanks again Lindsey.
Nevertheless, you do have to work harder to pull one soul out of his disillusions. Not easy but I am sure it is possible.
Anyway, thanks for all your kind words.