I don't think showing respect to either yourself or others has anything to do with the way you dress. Give me a casual dresser any day; I like the relaxed way
Spd, I never liked the overly sweet hard candies and lollipops much. Now chocolates and pralines are something different There is a reason after all, for moving to Brussels
Hi Daniel I think we all have our CS crushes If you like to know if something is there, write the lady and get to know her, you will never know unless you try. You're probably a bit affraid to get rejected, but don't let it stop you... what if she also has a crush on you and is affraid to contact you?
Tricky one with high school sweethearts. Ofcourse you're not the people anymore you were then, but again, you will only know when you get to know her better again. Ask her out on a 'friends' date first maybe?
Just take things slow and get to know both ladies on a friendly basis before deciding if you have to choose. Or when cupid strikes, you'll feel what the right thing is for you anyway.
Hi Diamond Really sorry to hear about your situation... guess it will be very hard to get out off. I'd say crisp white as well and try to write something very catching in the first alinea, so HR would want to call you for an interview. Still hard times though and I do wish you the best of luck!!
I totally get you Saskia and thanks for not taking my view the wrong way Ofcourse I have my own list of weaknesses... and I believe it's quite a long one too Think my biggest one lies in the line of food... Not very sophisticated, but it does make me feel good So enjoy; we all have our different little flings with things.
Real difficult issue you're raising here and you should think long and hard before deciding on anything, listen to your heart as well as thinking of practicalities. Putting a child into this world, to me, is one of the hardest decisions one (or two) can take.
I was 35 when my last relationship ended and my sister just became mother of her first. An emotional time and I realized for the first time, I would want to be a mother. However, I would like to be in a loving relationship with the father, so I waited for a bit to see if he came along. When he didn't pass by, I seriously considered becoming a single mum as well, but in the end decided against it, because of financial and practical reasons, as well as I think a child should grow up with a mum and a dad. No disrepect to single parents; I think they're doing a great job, but it was not my choice to start out like that. I gave myself till 40 and years passed. Had a little difficulty turning 40 without having met 'the man', but I came to terms with the idea of not becoming a mother and let go of it. It's sad in way, but wasn't meant to be.
Now, I'm trying to be the best, crazy aunty in the world, I sponsor a child in Eastern Europe and am trying to see what the options are in Belgium to become a foster parent, but only part time. Family can come in different shapes and sizes.
Sorry for the length of my reply, but this really is a matter close to my heart.
I wish you all the best coming up with a decision; you alone can make the right one for you.
Hi Primavera Don't worry and don't feel sorry; hope you feel better Warm day... definitely not; I'm wearing so many layers I can hardly move Happy, yes, because it's weekend
Come on, give the girl a break. She obviously got hurt and needed to vent; it's what we all do here from time to time. She didn't name names and didn't get personal, so why question her? And a lot of people use profile pictures that aren't of them... I don't think you look like yours, when you look in the mirror, do you? There's always more than meets the eye...
I'm terrible at being sneaky, but I try to be with a little help from my brother and sister (who are as bad as I am ) My parents will be married for 45 years and we want to enlarge one of their wedding pics on canvas... and plan some surprise. None of us has an idea yet of how to get to the negatives of the wedding pics without my parents finding out Think we'll come up with a scheme in the end... might even be a not so legal one
Hi Exit I'm not looking for a partner here or irl; I'm not even sure what I would want from a relationship... think I have some less average ideas about it
I'm here to kill time, talk with friends I made over the years and share and exchange views. Definitely not for counselling; I'm a firm believer of self help
Nice Hammock... I love train trips as well - not too fond of flying Very high on my to do list is the Silk route.
Rereading is great too; you always pick up other things and thoughts than from a first read. I'm rereading Mann's The Magic Mountain at the moment and enjoying it.
Hi Hammock Like you, travelling also still excites me as much as the first time I went on a trip... doesn't matter if it's by plane, train or car; I always feel like a little kid the night before his birthday. Same goes for reading and music; I can rediscover a book or a song with the same feeling of enthusiasm I had when I first discovered it.
Hi Irishidaho I think it's very sneaky; I like to think I'm old and wise enough to make my own decisions on whether I'd like to be with someone and digging dirt behind their back wouldn't be the most trusting thing to do. I take people at face value; don't think I'd care too much about things from their past anyway, it would only make me biased. I like to believe people are good until they prove themselves otherwise as well.
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RE: Wearing a Tie...
I don't think showing respect to either yourself or others has anything to do with the way you dress.Give me a casual dresser any day; I like the relaxed way