oldfoxyguy Blog Comments (35)

RE: A Man between Two Women

You can justify your friendship with "the other woman" all you want but I can tell you from experience it will not be worth compromising your relationshp with the Woman you love. If you Love her and she Loves you don't continue something that is not helpful to your situation. It is like having a spare woman in case anything goes sour.

RE: Directions

Nobody has been here long enough to learn everything. We just have a laugh or two and go for the gold when the chance comes along. Welcome to the nuthouse.

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I could have missed the best years of my life.

alfibaros,
I wish you the best of luck and hopr you are as fortunate as I,
Nearly a month now and the only thing we can argue about is who has to do the dishes. GO FOR IT

I could have missed the best years of my life.

I want to thank all of you who made such nice comments to my blog.
I have seen guys and girls here who are obviously attracred to one another so whats holding you back?
Tell them you find them attractive. You have lost nothing but a few printed words if you are barking up a wrong tree. If the feeling is mutual, go for it and meet somewhere somehow.

RE: Will you please lend your hand and ears?

It is a shame to see Eastern men post on this site, which is generally people from the western society, where the idea of virtually buying a wife is not acceptable.
Most women here are liberated from all the structured arranged Marriages that are very traditional in eastern societies. Enlightened Men have learned to bring a degree of romance into the courting process. Why would any Woman wish to contact a Man they have never seen, let alone apply to be his wife. It does not work in a western society. Re-think your approach and you will get more lucky.

RE: Operation Obama: a Real Fascist Threat

So you really believe everything that is happening in Washington is accidental and not a plan for many years in the making.
When Thomas Jefferson and others crafted the Constitution and the Bill of Rights at the creation on the United States Jefferson was quite verbal in his dislike for Government as a whole. He said without being closely watched, a Government becomes the enemy of the people and the right to bear arms is to protect yourself from your own Government. Rome had Senators and others at the head of government and even then it was realized that a Senator could not be trusted to serve more than a single one year term. We, in the United States have allowed Government to become little dynasties headed by charlatans who only care about keeping their power and to hell with the people they represent.

RE: Good Looks or Personality?

Haven't you ever been on a blind double date where the girl was described as having a great personality?
You knew right away that she was not very attractive. What the heck, she had a pulse and that was important.

RE: Relationship

Of course you can find someone here. Just take your time and put an effort out to post your opinions in forums and polls, even chatting if you are so inclined.
Those are the ways you can learn about peoples thoughts and where they are coming from. It worked for me and I will travel half way around the world to meet her in a few short weeks. Don't give up before allowing something to happen.

RE: I am so happy today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In case many of you from the U.S. or other countries don't realize it Montse08 is not kidding about dancing all night. Here is Honduras there are rules about that. At New Years and some other holidays you are expected to dance ALL NIGHT and it is bad luck to go to bed before the sun comes up in the morning. When I first arrived here I tried to do that and did it for a couple of years but finally admitted to my age and said no more. Have a blast Montse!

RE: Hmmm.Long time single.How do you start dating agai

Good advice. It's not just scary for a Woman. Men who have been married for a long time have the same problems. You forget how to play the dating game. Maybe that is a good thing because it was learned when you were very young and later in life the priorities have changed.
Good luck and spend time on the forums and polls so that you get to meet some really nice people along the way.

RE: Tell me a bad joke

Two psychiatrists meet on a corner one says good morning and the other thinks " I wonder what he meant by that".

RE: Tell me a bad joke

The Tacos always taste better if you let them thaw out first.

RE: I JUST DON,T KNOW

Thanks for your post PAT, so true. I try to not get involved in anything serious but I have occasionally. I post my opinion and hope to have better sense that to try to argue with someone. I view this as a fun site, not a political battle ground. Besides, just because I don't agree with someones opinion doesn't mean they are awful people. Ronald Reagan is quoted as saying " Democrats are not stupid or unintelligent, they are simply uninformed". and don't get all bent out of shape for that remark, the next person who says that will probably be talking about a Republican.

RE: un-lucky

It is such a shame that young people take life so seriously. When you are young you need to be flying like an eagle even when there are turkeys all around you.
In your first 40 years you will meet thousands of beautiful, desirable Women. Some will find you attractive and some will not. The trick is to insulate yourself against being crushed by the wrong girl. You will know when the right girl is there. You don't have to prove yourself just to get her attention. You and she will both feel it. Thinking you MUST get married when you are really young is an easy way to get into a divorce court. Use your time to look and enjoy so when Miss.Right comes along you will be mature enough to Marry for the right reasons.

RE: GIVING THIS SITE ONE MORE WEEK THEN I DELETE MY PR

A very interesting thread. I have been having a LDR with a lady for months now and have never yet even attempted to use IM. We have been Emailing back and forth and have gotten to know each other quite well I believe. Well enough that with a little luck with airlines we will meet in person in the near future.

RE: well heres another week of being single

Be careful what you wish for. LOL

RE: The guide for all men (just 4 laugh)

Loved them !

RE: hey :) im new here ..my names kat

Welcome to CS kat,
I have absolutely no advice for you because I am a neanderthal here at CS. The only thing I can remember about being 18 is I was already married. best of luck!

RE: I gave up another dating site last night because I

Absolutely summernight, tell them to kissoff!!!!!!

RE: I Still Know Who She Is

There is a movie called "The Notebook" a beautiful story of a similar love involving Alzheimer's disease.
If you appreciate this story you will need a box of kleenex to watch it.

RE: Why can't I

You are having the same feelings thousands of lonely people are feeling tonight.
When I became single again after 3 wives and over 55 years of Marriage, I wondered what in the world could I be thinking when I joined this site. Rather than looking for a lady I should be writing my headstone verse. Well Girls, I ain't ready to give it up yet and neither should you. I am far away and probably the oldest guy here but I have found joining in the forums and making myself familiar to the other members has restored my ability to communicate easily. Now right here where I am I am finding it easier to meet ladies many of whom I already know. After what seemed like eternity of making myself more visible I have had a few dates. Nothing serious but kinda like a warmup for the real thing. Actually I may have to be more selective because I do not want to lead a lady on if I know I would never be serious about her. I have simply asked them to join me for dinner or maybe a drink at a club. Letting them know I enjoyed their company for a nice night on the town.

Advice to you girls? I can only say there is no harm in joining a guy for a night out without already sizing him up for a steady. If that's where it will go it will happen. In the meantime you will get back your "sealegs, so to speak, and continue to cast your net, as your confidence comes back.

Good hunting

RE: <<<<<HOPING AND ASKING>>>>>

Hello Leelhet,
You have a very valid question and you mention God. I don't know what your beliefs are but if you have read very much of the Bible you may have see that he has a plan for each of us before we are born. That may be hard to understand sometimes but I think what is meant by that is that too many times it is we who try to judge our own lot rather than being confident that God cares enough to see you through the tough times.
Keep in mind that you must give away the power for someone to hurt you. Nobody can steal that from you when your strength comes from within. Have faith that there is a special someone who wants you as much as you want to find him.

RE: Guy's do not make these mistakes with women?

well said Amigo,

RE: I have a question...And please can somebody answer

Thank you Baby for correcting my misunderstanding. I only have one other comment and I am being very serious.
I am presently living in LaCeiba Honduras and there are more men than I care to count who come here simply because this is a poor country and the very young girls seem to be fair game to them. The average age, country wide, for girls to bear their first baby here is 14/15 years old. You were smart enough to avoid that and you are to be commended for that. My point is that there are men who seem to have a passion for girls who could be their Grand kid. For the girl It provides a bit of control over an older man and his ability to provide for her and the baby. Your experience sounds like it was he that wanted to push things very fast. I knew one guy who married a 15 yr old and when she became 21 she was too old for him and he moved on.
You were the smart one, so do what you think is right for you. I suspect you will do the smart thing.

RE: The Worst Pick Up Line Ever!!!!!

AWW, jesshhh, you may have lost out on a diamond in the buff.

RE: I have a question...And please can somebody answer

Unfortunately what you say makes no sense at all. If you are now 20 and you fell in love 6 years ago, you would have been 14 years old and your family should have put the brakes on your little crush. This old friend may not be the friend you think he is and is just enjoying the head games he is playing on you.

You seem to be pushing your expectations pretty hard. You are still very young and as the old saying goes, "good things come to those who wait". If however, you enjoy giving him control over your mind have at him. Otherwise tell him to buzz off.

RE: most people are down in the dumps on here

Friends are wonderful but, unfortunately, they do not warm their feet on your back in the middle of the night.

RE: After being on this site for a while now do you ju

Absolutely
I do the same because I finally realized I am not close enough to anybody to have a real relationship without moving. I had thought I would find an adventurous gal who would find a visit or relocation to Paradise very exciting. If I were 50 years younger it might have worked. Ahhh yes, Life goes on !

RE: Democrats are jumping ship....

Cleaning house in Washington is not a "want to" it is a MUST to save the USA from becomming the USSA. This is serious stuff. "WE THE PEOPLE MUST VOTE THE LEFTISTS OUT.
My ancestors, my brothers and other family members fought and died to keep us FREE. and all I have to do now is VOTE !