oh ... when u are sick, u don't need to go to the doc... cure yourself since u are a woman ... I bet u can also walk on the sea cause u are a woman .. correct?
ok ma'am ... unless u are willin to learn, I cannot force u ...
up to u at the end of the day ... if u wanna believe that u are a more reliable sorce than a scientist just cause u are a woman, then go ahead... do so!
'10k as a woman, I'm a better expert on women than you who aren't a woman'
who said that u? yeah, it could be that u r better than me but definately not better than a scientific study ... u r talkin speculation.. I'm talkin science here ... airtight!
... why is it so hard to believe me? ... even when I state trivial stuff like that I do find opposition ... either some ppl live on the moon or else I really donno ....
lost a parent meself too .... I was approx. still a kid bck then ... I never went to his grave after the funeral; not even on father's day. I don't keep a pic of him; nothing which was his around me....
I simply don't need that sort of stuff ... he's always with me... in me memories ... in who I am .... your mother will ALWAYS be with u ...
fear of rejection does of course make one lose opportunities ... I've been rejected like a contagious dog, kicked out, scorned at, laughed at, disgusted and all sorts ... perhaps ... that's why I'm so numb to rejection ...
WORST than rejection are stereotypes and what I call 'social expectations' ... like, a girl has to be slim and petite to be attractive; likewise, a guy has to be tall and strong ... us pipsqueaks are hopeless case... on the other hand, a guy must earn more than his woman.. ermm ... he must be taller than her ... ermm ... he's expected to be more assertive than her ... list is endless ...
I myself find it difficult to distance meself from this stuff and it is this stuff which poses the largest hazard in missin the so called 'perfect match'/'made-to-measure match' and even 'the right one' ....
If only we could stop bothering about trifle stuff as the mentioned above and just mind the way we feel around a person ... I believe it would be a way wiser approach in findin 'love' ...
a quick glimpse to what u call 'true love' and I'll shut my hole (i.e. mouth) ... well yeah ... say ... it's super rare stuff but yeah ... there could be folks which indeed love their partner ... beware: lookin for true love is worst than seekin the needle in the haystack ... so ... odds are that one will fail ....
won't believe for a second that there ain't a queue of guys ready to marry u and make the weird fable in u head come true (assuming u are like 99.9999% of the other girls on the blue planet)
that to me is a clear indication that u are a tad too choosy and will keep on waiting and waiting till hogs catch flight ... by which time ... ermm ... u might be say 70 years old?
First thing that pops in me mind after readin this is: Takin off the shirt simply doesn't work with the ladies... let's give 'em gullible girlies what they want ... that being the nonsense u wrote here!
In anycase, I wanna believe that what u said is all in good faith and u really is disturbed by girls acting provocativly ....
Thing is that, what guarantee do u have that a decently-clothed girl is indeed in for a serious relationship? alright, u might say, odds are that a girl with a more decent picture is in for serious stuff more than the counterpart; lemme tell ya that that's only an assumption!
Some girls do think that that is the way to attract a guys attention without actually realising what sort of attention they'd be attracting like that! Others like it and are confident enough to do it ...In both case, what is done is no harm and was done in good faith ....
Listen to me mate, till u try, u neva really know & consequently u simply can't say! .... so, quit the prejudice (that's never a good idea) and take your chance with who u like... if u find she ain't into serious stuff, then back off.... simpler than that it can't be!
of course it's normal and what the doc proved has been suspected and hypothised since the dawn of time ... I personally have always supported this theory here on this website, for all that matters. Of course, as expected I got lots of resistance and frawns.... but anyways... FACT IS:
whoever says otherwise is simply in denial... P.E.R.I.O.D!
RE: Playing Hard to Get
ladies.... I am sensin a huge lack of common sense in here..my apologies ... and off to sleep I am ...