Where is the Love?
Aren't all of us, regardless of our gender, background , race, age or economic status in need of real love? or am I just kidding myself? Does our fear of loss and rejection inhibit us from finding true love? Does true love exist? I believe that it does......if we could just let go of the fear and open up to let it in.Is this possible in today's world filled with deceit, lies and complications?
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THANK YOU! My God, man....was that so hard?? Don't say it
fear of rejection does of course make one lose opportunities ... I've been rejected like a contagious dog, kicked out, scorned at, laughed at, disgusted and all sorts ... perhaps ... that's why I'm so numb to rejection ...
WORST than rejection are stereotypes and what I call 'social expectations' ... like, a girl has to be slim and petite to be attractive; likewise, a guy has to be tall and strong ... us pipsqueaks are hopeless case... on the other hand, a guy must earn more than his woman.. ermm ... he must be taller than her ... ermm ... he's expected to be more assertive than her ... list is endless ...
I myself find it difficult to distance meself from this stuff and it is this stuff which poses the largest hazard in missin the so called 'perfect match'/'made-to-measure match' and even 'the right one' ....
If only we could stop bothering about trifle stuff as the mentioned above and just mind the way we feel around a person ... I believe it would be a way wiser approach in findin 'love' ...
a quick glimpse to what u call 'true love' and I'll shut my hole (i.e. mouth) ... well yeah ... say ... it's super rare stuff but yeah ... there could be folks which indeed love their partner ... beware: lookin for true love is worst than seekin the needle in the haystack ... so ... odds are that one will fail ....
mate... indeed... u can reason straight.. let's stop doing that and take your suggestion though (i.e. beer)
You can have my love, if you want it! But I`m just as frightened as everyone else to losen up and tell you!
been on work , back with u friendos and wierdos!
Love u ppl. Specially you 10k, woldent say i have a crush rather
deeple madly inlove.
Parti, love u as always. Ur my favorite uncle.
Now what i want you to do fellas is as follows: u two go into a teleporter at the same time and over at the other boot stands Lane nervously anxsiuosly waiting for what hopfully will be the best date of her life. Ok? Hope it will work better than in the film, or that date will be shortlived.. litturally speaking.
Dont say i dident contribute Lana!
Cross those two excellent good men and u are pretty
close to what you need i say.
Dont worry about me i actually HAVE a date from here in store. We just need to get it in gear. Work in progress.
I love you
...eehh wasent this blog about where the love was?
Well here it is!
Dont worry my date IS a girl
parti10k is a good date for Lana.
You scaredoe!
Ok, was just joking. 10k and parti is two good canidates. You could always consider one of them Lana.
Good luck with your serach for love.
(ok now..?)
lol
parti... me beloved competition .... KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF THIS GIRL I COMMAND YOU!
In our own minds, yes it does. It is also the same in the minds of others too, but finding the match to our own definition of love is the difficult bit.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!
hmm ... bone was what u really meant mate... bone was meant indeed!
I think that men especially have had to take some pretty intense emotional bashing from us women because lets face it , we are emotional creatures and tend to react much harsher when it comes to issues involving interpersonal relationships....so, I believe that a lot of men feel that they may need to put up some barriers so to speak in order to "stay sane"....does this make sense to anyone?
Here have some scotch whiskey for breakfast and lets just have a good laugh
Ahh guys... in the spirit if Af: no fighting
Kiss and make out!
No, as u can see parti -no Boss here, i like to be my own boss!
And for the few who never saw the film "the fly" - Jeff Goldblum gets into a teleporter-boot, gonna travel in air 30m to the next. It actually works! , only problem was that there had got a fly in the boot with im. He comes out at the other end seemingly in good shape.. but soon he start to mutate into a half human half fly..
I figured it could be a good way to cross two humans into one.
Morgen I saw this film and it's inspired by the famous Kafka's novella "Metamorphosis" where the character wakes up one day and finds out he has turned in an insect.
But he was also a loonie,
my father who have read alot told me.
Read 'Prosessen' (the trial), Jana?
Wow its as old as 1925
(K died in 24 according to wiki)
Well...sometimes I wish that I could be a fly on the wall so that I could hear what people say about me when I'm not around. Just the "spy" in me
All the best.
Bettis
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