Hey Nam that reminds me of when i tried to free the fly from the lump of jam he had himself stuck on.. of course i couldn't pull him off without squashing him or pulling off his wings, so the clever witch that i am came up with the good idea of dripping water from the tap would soften the stickyness and he'd fly away..thing is, too much water spouted out and the poor little fly got drowned
I'm sure a time will come Ian when such regrets might keep her awake at night but at least you can sleep in comfort knowing you did/done the best you could..
Sorry Ian, if it sounds like i'm judging you, because i'm not. There is always more to a story than whats told and i can appriciate that along with respecting the privacy of others also..But as we both know the importance of our mothers to us, i couldn't help but feel sad for your son thinkig he may of been deprived of his mothers love/ relationship because you and her did not work... it happens.
she made him choose at ten... thats both sad and wrong.
Gosh" hope i don't get killed for saying this but i hope Ian your son has since forgiven his mother and of course accepted her as his sister.. because she is.
Maybe not Back" but once you have the know how, its quiet simple to be honest. I suppose you think it would be better if we could just do it with the simple press of a button? easier maybe, but what about exercising the brain..
I don't think room for improvement is always a must, think too sometimes we spoil things by looking for just that.. appriciate the simple things in life, even more so when free
RE: How can I feel better ?
Eh Abbyyou're not desperate, so don't act so desperate