Hm, I am very rarely on the forum. When I am in the right mood for being creative, then usually some ideas pop up on my mind and I have to write it down at once - at least take some notes. Otherwise, I would forget it few minutes after again. Got a really bad working memory...
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Thank you. But actually it shouldn't be 'nice'. hehe
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"Soon I rushed off without letting him know"
Hmm... if you are, who I'm thinkin of, then I still owe you a short story?!?
I just dunno why so much people concern about marriage anyway...
to me, it has just nothing to do with love especially, if I hear such people say "it's time to get our relation to a higher level".
whaahaahaa! A 'higher level'. So, relationship is nothing but a game to them? Well maybe... a game they'll surely be about to lose!
I'd say, today, most people marry for many reasons, but hardly any because of their love:
- they want to show to other people, how much they love - want to 'push' their relationship, which is about to doze off - because their religion claims so - they don't want their child to grow up extramarital - for any different fiscal reasons - or maybe to gain your partner's nationality - etc...
And - to keep in mind - marriages was basically invented by certain religions, wasn't it? Just that God would appreciate their relationship. And I always thought, god loved us anyway.. hahah Indeed, our love wouldn't change, just because of marriage.
So, to come back to the main question:
I wouldn't want to marry my true love, so I wouldn't marry a stranger for love either. But there'd be some good reasons or situations, to marry without love(but only very rarely, T think).
And marrying a stranger wouldn't lead to being married with each other any much longer than with one u knew for years. Because u're really more likely to find out stuff about the stranger, which u don't like, than about the person u've been together with for a long time...
spontanous marriages surely end very much sooner than others.
Hm, in my opinion, all of us are picky (or just not) for a certain reason.
- Some might prefer certain kind of (wo)man, because of most common stereotypes connected to them. - There might be some experience/memories we have in mind, when we see people of different ethnical origin, which remind us of comfortable feeling and good times we once had with one of them. - On the other hand, bad experience/memories or negative stereotypes would lead us to avoid others.
But, as well, somehow I believe that deep inside of us, we already know, who it will be. And because of that we maybe instinctively become picky to make it easier to find the special one for us.
So, in the end, I'd say... it might become really difficult to find anyone, but exactly that makes it easier to find the right one.
When there are much people on this site at the same time, it causes much traffic to its server(s). That may result in low connection speed and quite long time to refresh or load. If it takes to long, your browser shows the standard 'current not available, or...'-site. Did u mean that?
Or is your whole system freezing (that u'll have to restart the computer)? Or at least the whole internet?
Do u always have to restart then, or only wait a few minutes and then it gets back to normal?
Maybe your whole computer got too slow. Try to clean up your temporary files... could help.
oh, I'm not too sad about that. indeed it's the first time ever that I really start searching. Anyway, I believe that I'll meet her, once the time has come. Nothing to worry about... I just like to write, and I think that a poem with such a topic should be that emotional.
Indeed, it isn't that sad, cause it contains much of hope. In my opinion the 1. stanza expresses negative feelings and the 2. one positive.
Maybe that happened after some time, when she had started studying it. Not the best language to study - I might add... Too much irregular forms, etc. and doesn't sound that good as well (my opinion).
I prefer writing in English right here. But if you want to, then I can post another poem - this time a german one. then u can discuss its different meanings and the social criticism in it.
But beware! That one contains a really dark mood...
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Adorable duplicity
I'm sure, no one likes to. ;)