kidatheart Forum Posts (16,544)

What's your excuse?

Well, long distance relationships aren't easy, but they are doable, if both are willing to try. If the other party doesn't, it's hard to even start.

There are a lot of nice people all over the world, and I have to admit, if I had the cash, I would have been on a plane a few times, even just to meet a friend.

Have you tried offline, closer to home, or just this so far?

What's your excuse?

Hi Yazz,

Well, it's also possible that he wouldn't leave, and keeping your dating life apart from your home life isn't a bad idea. At least yntil you have a better idea of how things might go.

You'd be amazed at what children understand, they're smarter than most give them credit for. They want you to be happy too.

Maybe try the ferris wheel, it's a nice ride.

What's your excuse?

Ahh, see, you're not so inflexible after all.

Sharing is good, as is a playful spirit.

G'nite Jono

What's your excuse?

That was my Roscoe impression, kinda lousy, I know.

Quit being difficult, let one of the ladies have some fun, besides, some like the cuffs on them too.

What's your excuse?

Wouldn't cuffs lead to inflexibility though, or just immobility?

Ummm, maybe I should ask, who's gonna be wearing them?

What's your excuse?

Yeah yeah, you're fine.


Less rigidity, and being more open to fuzzy faced people.

What's your excuse?

Sorta but not really.

More like a Mechano set.

What's your excuse?

Ok Doc, quit playing hard to get, let someone cuff you and stuff you, guh guh guh.

What's your excuse?

Yeah, Winnipeg is kind of in the middle of nowhere.




Ok, lost in a fantasy world. Do you think you could ever step into reality and try dating someone?

What's your excuse?

Hmmm, there's one I've encountered before personally, a woman with young children. It wasn't an issue when we first started chatting, but it did becaome one later, but not on my part.

Yeah, single life is easier in a lot of ways, I agree, but it could be just as easy with someone, just different. No need to forget about YOU, and your needs in the process of raising kids.

Hope you don't mind, but are you fresh out of a relationship?

What's your excuse?

You, my optomistic and ever enlightening friend, should be a little more flexible, as you admit.

I've met some mountain type men in BC, they like the wilderness, off the grid living, artsy, but unfortunately they don't like people, and they don't bathe.

with half a sandwich stuck in the beard.

Ok, flexibility.

What's your excuse?

I know what you mean, and I prefer "makes me insides all squishy" as a term for it.




Well, you're at least trying, more than some are doing.

What's your excuse?

Ahhh, looking for that "forever" man, and many are.

Best of luck, hope you find him.

What's your excuse?

You're never too old! It just means you're better practiced at this life thing, and have a better idea of what you want.

Happy with life is good, could be better with some though, maybe?

What's your excuse?

Well, maybe in time, I hope so, if not, many people I know live full and happy lives single.

What's your excuse?

That's understandable, and sometimes a break or taking it slow isn't a bad idea.




Me? Hmmmm, I've thought of a couple dozen of them, but most were absolute BS.

I guess fear, but not of failure, but of it working out.

What's your excuse?

What constitutes the right person? What if they tick the majority of the boxes, just short a couple, but close?

Is it really ALL or nothing?

What's your excuse?

Hmmmm, grits look rather tasty.

Ok, you're making an effort, but what if someone never does make your knees buckle, is that even realistic to look for?

What's your excuse?

I've read your posts before, so I do understand where you're coming from. The thing is, not all men are the same, there are good ones out there.

What's your excuse?

Sasquatch is a ficticious creature, I looked it up on Google.

What's your excuse?

So, what's your excuse for not dating or meeting someone, on the site or offline?

What is it, distance, money, too fat, too short, too old, too skinny, what gives? There always seems to be an excuse for why not, so list your's, and a reason for your excuse.

Seems after 5 years of being on the site, reading the forums, I've heard them all, but maybe there's one that I haven't.

What are people afraid of, really, is it failure, picking the wrong person, happiness?

Always an excuse.

RE: Fortune Cookie

Always drink upstream from the herd.

RE: Did she over-react too soon?

No, I haven't.

I have seen a few absolutely adorable beavers though.






Maybe not the best place for me to be funny right now.

RE: Did she over-react too soon?

Ummm, what the hell is a Sasquatch?




Uh oh....

RE: The Pope says!

Oh, you're one of those types of people, looking down at anyone that doesn't belong to your cult and believe the same as you do.

Thankfully, your herd is thinning out as people start to realise the actual truth.

RE: The Pope says!

Yep, and I'm sure they had mythical wineskins strapped to their mythical camels too.

RE: If you had the power to change the world what would you do?

I prefer mine mashed, you don't end up crawling around on the floor searching for those lost ones that fall off your fork.


I'm not interested in changing the world, it's not such a bad place overall.

RE: The "I am" thread

I am wondering why some people are allowed to walk among us.

No, I don't mean me, I'm not that bad. I mean those other people.

RE: Huntin 2011

If people only knew the full story behind how their food eventually ends up on their plate, they would might not see hunting as a bad option.

It's far more humane to hunt for food than many realise, and healthier.

RE: why i am alone now and why arent finding my love this site?

Maybe I should behave.

Nah...