What I tell ya? I was one of the people to email her. I did it as soon as I read your thread. I couldn't sit idle while a friend was hurting. That's what friends are for. Make sure this time when you two get together, you grab her in a warm embrace and plant a big ole smooch on her. I think you'll be O-TAY.
LMAO. "My Humps"..... it justs sticks in your head and doesn't go away. I like the video, mainly because of Fergie. I love it when it's played at the club, the women go frickin nuts on the dance floor, fun to watch LOL.
That's cool. I went for days without a message, then there were those days when I had many. Don't get jeajous too soon, we're "talking" like I said. We do plan to get together some weekend real soon. Probably when I get my taxes back, I'm waiting on my W2, so I can e-file and get them back asap. I think things are looking good though. Thanks buddy
Definitely not the only one. I felt this way just about every day for the past 2yrs. I had my good days and bad. I believed there was someone out there for me, but it drove me crazy time and time again, not knowing when and where she would turn up. It's very nerve-racking indead.
I have met someone now, and we are in the "talking" stage. Online and on the phone, we have hit it off quite well. I'm all so anxious to be with her in person, and to see where this will lead. I tell myself over an over, not to get to attatched to quick, but it's hard. None of my internal alarms have went off, telling me there's something wrong with this one. Each time we talk, I get that feeling that this could be something special. I guess you could call me a hopeless romantic.
I hope you have someone special turn up soon. You're one of the good guys here, and I am glad to call you a friend. You never know, you could bump into her at the grocery store or gas station, ect....
You haven't called me a fool, you're right. But you have implied it without saying numerous times. All you do is make yourself look like an even bigger a&%^ than you already are.
You don't have to say that you're better than me or anyone else. You obviously think you are, and your actions speak louder than words.
If you have been unable to figure this out by now, let me spell it out to you L E A V E. WE are tired of your lack of respect for others, to say the least.
I think you make a very good point. I choose to wear the "nice guy/ good guy" label, because that's how I am. I'm not perfect, and never will be, but screwing up who I am, I don't see happening.
I also very much agree with the fact of being this way doesn't make you spineless. I have a dark side that comes out when it is neccesary, but only then.
You're right, " nice" doesn't have to mean boring. Sometimes the "nice guy/ good guy" is wrongly stereotyped. By being this way, it shouldn't automatically mean you're boring/ spineless/ ect....
It's time for us to step up and finish first, and leave last place for those who truely deserve it. I have been stepping my game up, and I'm staring down the winners circle.
Do you not have the brain power, or common sense, to realize when to close that foul spewing oriface you call a mouth? You constantly cut down and offend many people here, and it is really time for you to stop. I could care less what you think of me, I really do. You are obviously jealous of me, because you constantly try to make me look a fool, but in doing so, make yourself look that much worse. Do you think you're that much better than me, or everyone else here? People are here for legitimate reasons, not to offend and or upset others, like yourself.
wait, wait, I've already got your response..........Ha, ha, you're killing me. I love you Shawny baby, and the rest of you net people. Why are you getting soooo angry? Take a prozac. I'm here to help. Blah, blah, blah......I think that pretty much sums up all of your posts.
Whether or not anything will sink into that dense skull of yours, I can't say, but seriously doubt. If this is how you live life in the real world, you have a serious problem, and need to wake up. The world doesn't revolve around you, no matter how much you believe it to. To treat others like you do, is wrong on so many levels. Things come full circle, and you will reap what you sew someday.
Dark days, 2yrs ago. When the ex left I went out every weekend trying to drown the pain. I'd get stupid drunk, but after the bar closed, most times I would wind up with tears in my eyes. There were times when I never should've been behind the wheel, but wound up doing so. I never turned to drugs, I can thankfully say. This went on for sometime. The drinking thing didn't control me, and it was a short lived phase. When I go out now it's to get out for a little while to hang out with friends, not drown my sorrows. My dark days started to brighten up about 7 months ago, when I could finally put the pain aside. Now, I have someone I hope in time will be a constant in my life. I'm taking it slow, and things are going quite nicely. I'm a stronger person now, and I don't ever want to allow myself to relapse to 2yrs ago.
Here in the Ohio, the sell these tablets called "chasers". You're supposed to take them before you drink, and they're supposed to prevent hangovers. I haven't used them, but a couple friends say they work. I meant to give them a shot, but i always forget. There's also a energy type drink called "hair of the dog" that's supposed to help the morning after. I took one sip, and threw it out. I'd rather drink gasoline and piss on a campfire, very disgusting indead.
As for anything else, plenty of water/ ibuprophen/ and sleep.
See what I mean, dumber and dumber every single time. Not to mention pretty much the same lame remarks "I love you people".
Hey bonehead, I don't have to say I'm a real man, my friends here say it enough for me. Calling me kid? That's pretty funny, considering you're the one who acts like a kid.
Some day you might develop a brain, but I seriously doubt it. Let me guess, you were the kid no one liked growing up, so you think you're cool now, smarting off to everyone. WRONG. You just show us all how pathetic you are.
There's always that rotten apple that ruins the bunch though, LOL. I've met others from different countries, and yes they are usually nice people.
It is quite humorous to shut them up in person, rather than the net. Here they can hide behind a computer with no fear, so the senseless babbling has no end. In person they don't have such option.
He just seems to get dumber and dumber each time he makes a remark here.
Welcome Dog, I'm Shaun. Hope you learn and have fun here, just don't pay attention to Wave. He's ate too many lead paint chips, so he lacks a fully functioning brain.
Biggest thing that's helped me, is to just relax and be myself. I'm no pro at it, but I think I have gotten much better since I've been relaxed. The hardest part is breaking the ice. If you've seen "big daddy", with Adam Sandler you'll remember this line........................
Initiating conversation is half the battle
Introduce yourself, where they from, what do they do for a living, where'd they go to school.........simple stuff like that. Be assertive, women really go for an assertive man. I've become more assertive, and things have gotten better for me. Be confident. Confidence and assertiveness kinda go hand in hand Make eye contact. I think the eyes play a big part in the first impression.
If you can be laid back and do these 4 things, I think you'll see some dramatic results.
Damn, now I'm sounding like I know what I'm talking about. LMAO. Seriously though. Give it a shot.
Best of luck TheBigDog, get off the porch & get em buddy!!
I love the attention, don't get me wrong. It's one of those all or nothing things, ya get it all or ya don't get squat. I had fun last night though, that's all that matters.
I did have fun rockin the mic, I didn't expect all the applause. I hopped up later and saved some guy on Eminem's "without me", but I think I unitentionally made him look bad, they were high fivin me and hollerin after. I guess you could say it's one way to get some attention, lol
Now that I'm talking with someone, they all seem to come out of the woodwork. I went out with my best friend( whom I consider a brother), and his brother and dad. I saw a couple women looking my way. A friend put "my way" by Limp Bizkit on request for me to do at kareokee, which I had no idea. I did the song, with a standing ovation I might add. After, I had a couple women approach me, and one slid her number into my shirt pocket. What's up with this???? I could be all alone, no one at all intrested, but when someone catches my eye or I'm with them, women are everywhere. It's about time for some scientific research, yes, no??????
There's gotta be a hormone a man excretes when he's with a woman or talking to, that women can't resist. It happens all the time. It's one way or the other.........I'm alone, or beating them off woth a stick.
It's funny. He thinks he's the man, but really is a scared little boy. He says he has the answers, but in reality he has no clue. All he can say is, " ha, ha, you're killin me, or I love you baby".
One........... hate to break your heart, but I'm in search of a woman, not a man.
two........... I want a woman, not a man
three......... I don't know what kind of gay fantasies you've had but....I'm strictly chickly
I don't know what your reasons here are Wave. If you are here to meet a woman, you've failed miseralbly. if you think "real" women fall for your routine, wrong agian. The people here stick up for me because they can see a "real" man, not a little scared boy. I am honest and up front, I try to help people, or ask for it myself, not make a dumb a&%^% comment or remarks.
I know Waves remark to this..........you're killin me shawny baby.......take a prozac........why you gotta be so angry.....blah, blah, blah.....
Come on, your stupid comments are getting old. Grow up. We're all wise to you, so give it up. If you feel the need for stupidity, go elsewhere.
Rose and all my friends,
Thank you for the honesty, and warm remarks. This guy needs to make a dissapear act worthy of houdini.
If Wave was my clone, I would've had him put down a long time ago, LOL. I don't allow evil clones of myself. Besides, I don't surf. I can see it now, I fall off the board, and I hear the sharks yell "dinner time!" LOL
Thank you Rose. I do feel she's there watching over me, but I still wish she could've been around a little while longer. I guess the hardest part was her passing away in my arms. To have someone leave this world in your arms, is probably one of the hardest things to experience.
RE: Thank you Fellas
What I tell ya? I was one of the people to email her. I did it as soon as I read your thread. I couldn't sit idle while a friend was hurting. That's what friends are for. Make sure this time when you two get together, you grab her in a warm embrace and plant a big ole smooch on her. I think you'll be O-TAY.Shaun