I really don't care. I can cook quite well, I don't mind going somewhere nice, or hitting up a pizza place or burger shack. I like a little variety from time to time.
I was the 13th and last grandchild on my mom's side
I sent in a Cash Explosion (ohio lottery) entry ticket in for my mom from my address and it was drawn exactly 3 yrs ago on january 13th, 2003.......and she won about 21 thousand after taxes, which was much needed at that time, because they had their house forclosed on
it was Ohio State's regular season win total 13-0, going into the national championship in '02, which they won beating Miami 31-24
Good byes are so difficult, especially when you lose someone that is dearest to your heart. The two that hurt the most was when my grandma died in my arms 20yrs ago, and my ex-fiance leaving me 2yrs ago this tuesday that just passed. I loved both, but I know my grandma is still watching me from above. The ex, well..........HER LOSS!!! As long as you have your memories, then they will never be totally gone.
I try to avoid things as much as possible. But when someone needs to be put in place, game on. I don't get into physical fights if avoidable, but I will stand my ground and defend myself if need be. I would prefer to mentally defeat my foe. I'm sure there will be some sort of reference to Waverider and myself now. Hey what can I say, he just can't stand defeat, LOL.
Messed up situation indeed. The bf's mom needs some mental evaluations, cause she's got more than a screw loose. It's rough seeing someone so young preparing for parenthood. Be there for her all the way, and try to keep the physco at arms length at least, maybe farther if needed. I hope all goes well for you and the mother to be. I wish all parents would be as supportive for their expecting children.
I think she's scared. I think maybe she's come to the realization she's the one who made the mistake. She might be scared to try to mend things in fear of being rejected. There was obviously a connection between the two of you, and I know your pain all to well. I know it seems like kicking someone when you're down, the way she is doing you right now in your conversations. A part of me says to forget her, and another says not to. I struggled with that when my ex-fiance left....Should I, or should I, not forget her. I carried a lot of pain inside over her for so long, but I always had that glimmer of hope she would come back in my life. It took me until probably earl summer last yr to finally push past the pain, and to fully move on.
God works in mysterious ways, and it sometimes is very trying for us to go thru. Things have been in motion since we were first brought in this world, and the is a reason for everything that happens. Now being able to put logic to the reason, that's what drives us nuts sometimes. Some are easy, and some we can't figure out for the life of us. The best advise I could give at this point is......be yourself, let your heart lead you, and even if this doesn't work....have faith and carry on. This may not be meant to be, or it could be a (tough, nerve racking) test for you to go thru.
I shed many a tear over the ex because of so much I loved her. Time heals all wounds (or so they say), but there is no set time frame, everyone is different. I think being a "real man" and or "strong man", doesn't mean you cannot cry. If a man isn't afraid to open up and show emotion, now that's a man in my book. Being a crybaby is a whole different thing. Some men don't cry, some do, that shouldn't make either any the lesser.
I hope things work out for you regardless of what comes to be of this situation.
Real men do exist, and in larger numbers then you may think. We are overshadowed by idiots that make us all look like them. Take our village idiot Waverider for example, if we were all like him, the human race might cease to exist.
Cool,
I think the whole money issue, is just something in your head. No offense intended what so ever. Would you not date someone if she made more than you? I myself wouldn't have a problem with it, but I would be out working hard for my money. If my ex and I would still be together, she would've brought home more than me, big deal. Is it that it bothers you, or you've ran into one that has turned you down because she makes more?
I'm sorry to hear man. I can tell you cared deeply for her. If she felt the slightest bit as much as you do/did, then she'll come back. If not, it must not have been meant to be. Don't give up my friend, things happen for a reason. We're still here for you.
Don't let her go man. Let her know how you feel. I've done it before, and I regret it to this day, cause I'll never know what could've been. Go after her, don't let her slip away. I truley hope things work out.
I like to attend a nice formal party. I'd like to find a badass tuxedo, the whole nine yards. I've been to a few parties in my time, but never a formal one. The last time I wore a tux was at my best friend's wedding, I was the best man. Getting all dressed up is something I never have a reason to do, I think it would be fun
Here's one that I've done that has won major points.
I have her come over, unsuspecting that I have dinner prepared when she arrives. I prepare a wonderful dinner, with candles and a dozen roses on the table. We eat to candlelight, and spend the rest of the night at home on the couch watching movies together, and whatever else the night leads to.
I have never had an issue with a woman having children. My biggest thing is I want at least one child of my own. Her to have no children is no problem what so ever, just she would have to be open about having one together if we were to become very serious in the relationship (marriage).
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RE: In their profiles, a lot of men say they like to Dine out-
I really don't care. I can cook quite well, I don't mind going somewhere nice, or hitting up a pizza place or burger shack. I like a little variety from time to time.