So in essence , you’re saying that people who’ve had many failed relationships in the past are better equipped to give advice , than those who have been married or had a long term partner for many years and are still ongoing ..
Usually, when you lose a child , you’re in a relationship with the father, so you go through the traumatic experience together. I don’t class that as baggage.
If you repeat the same old mistakes , then Ot can be worrying. Serial broken marriages is a red light , as far as I’m concerned . Baggage can be a positive as you said .
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So in essence , you’re saying that people who’ve had many failed relationships in the past are better equipped to give advice , than those who have been married or had a long term partner for many years and are still ongoing ..