The difference is if the guy keeps his mouth shut ....he can have both of em ......and then there's the common problem with women .....simply impossible to keep the trap shut ...
We call that "rebound" love .....trying to replace what's lost....and it never works out. My advice is to enjoy doing things with your girlfriends for a year then start looking again
RE: What im looking for in a man............................
Women are so demanding !