Assets, I don't think it makes you selfish. I'd probably not want to say anything either, BUT...if anything bad happened to her, I'm not sure if I could live with myself for NOT telling. Was he mildly abusive or extremely abusive? If he ever came close to killing you, then I'd definitely say something. If she laughed me of, at least I could sleep at night, if he DID do anything to harm her. Ya know?
I agree with Mitchell. Give him a little time...maybe give HIM time to call YOU! If he doesn't call you after 5 or 6 days, I'd probably call him to make sure he's okay and if he's okay. If he's okay, THEN I'd have to think he's just not that into me!
Cheers to YOU for being able to take a little teasing! Can't see your picture clearly but you look like a nice guy. I wish you luck in finding someone AND...don't be afraid to post often. That's a good way for the ladies to see what kind of personality you have, what your thoughts are on different topics, and how you respond to different scenarios.
Welcome! You ARE special because you just posted something that makes you seem very mature for your age. I noticed it in particular because I wondered what the intelligent person looked like and there's no picture. Good for you being so smart for such a young woman! I DO hope you meet someone special here.
Jag, I think a LOT of men don't have the ability to share their feelings. They seem to hold them in. One of the three loves in my live was quiet and didn't talk easily. I had to DRAG things out of him, but after years getting comfortable and confident in himself, he turned out to be a chatterbox! It was GREAT!!
Cristina, I won't say goodbye unless I meet Mr. Cutie Patootie! I'm here like white on rice....maybe not everyday but ALMOST everyday unless I'm off on a vacation or something.
OMG...no WONDER there seems to be a lot of stalking going on!! Gol almighty!!I'm never going to sign-up anyplace else EVER again! It's ridiculous that you can't delete your profile!
MY preference would be someone not more than 6 or 7 years younger than myself because I look 6 or 7 years younger than I am. I think it's not so good to see an obvious 60 year old person dating someone in their 40's or 50's. It's just wrong, in my opinion of course!
How sweet you are! There's a little Irish blood in me and you're right! An Irish person never leaves a friend outside!
Be assured that you'd also be welcome to visit me here in beautiful Kentucky!! There's a cute guest room that YOU would love...with a view of 3 horses grazing in a pasture across the street!
I LOVE to dance! Have fun, be careful, and be aware! My Dad used to say that to me when I was young and hitting all the clubs in my city....especially "be aware." You never know what kind of problem you could find yourself in, if you AREN'T aware!
Hot_T....I just opened this and read your first post! Wow! Glad I was the one who inspired you to jump in and chat with all these great people! Some days I can be VERY witty! The more I drink, the funnier I get!
JUST kidding! Enjoy yourself and I DO hope you meet a good man!
You're right about a few things and I agree with much of what you said. I don't blame you for enjoying your freedom after ending a 20 year relationship. THAT is huge! Enjoy yourself and take time for yourself. The more you do, the more you'll enjoy being in your own space. The longer I'm single, the more comfortable I am.
I agree that what I want today MIGHT change tomorrow but not by much. I keep ADDING to my list of what I'm looking for in a man and I fear that there's no such man! If he had HALF the qualities I'm looking for, I'd probably forget about the rest! THAT'S the funny part of it!
I wish you luck EnGee and hope you take a few YEARS to enjoy your freedom!
Cherokee....I'm beginning to think that men prefer women who are more submissive. Most of the mature women here have definite ideas on what they're looking for in a man...mostly because they've experienced good and bad relationships.
It's okay. I'm not going to sacrifice my "wish list" for a man who has it all. There are lots of great guys here who are fun to chat with and it's not a bad deal for the money it costs to be here!! At least they all give me something to smile about each day.
Hey SHIP!!! Where'd you go? Didn't you get my "Have a nice day?" C'mon....Don't tell me you're not familiar with Bon_Jovi's mega hit! "They Say Ya Can't Go Home!" AWESOME song! Love it AND Bon_Jovi!
RE: Obligations
Assets, I don't think it makes you selfish. I'd probably not want to say anything either, BUT...if anything bad happened to her, I'm not sure if I could live with myself for NOT telling. Was he mildly abusive or extremely abusive? If he ever came close to killing you, then I'd definitely say something. If she laughed me of, at least I could sleep at night, if he DID do anything to harm her. Ya know?