I have always felt that if you are fit and healthy, the pounds shouldn't matter. I lift weights so obviously my weight would be hirer but doesn't necessarily make me overweight. Agreed I would prefer a man that is my build as would be awkward if he were the scrawny type. I personally don't think anyone has the right to tell someone they are fat. I just think if these guys weren't interested in me, then be tactful and say not what I am looking for. Didn't care for the name calling. It was quite childish.
Yes, I have lots of flexibility. For the right guy, I would relocate in a heart beat. Working on an online sewing business so I could work anywhere in the world. Just wish these darn guys would make the first move.
Give it time my dear. As the saying goes Rome wasn't built in a day. Get on the forums and chat with people and you will be dating before you know it. Good luck.
Ah you are too kind but pages ago my thread got hijacked and we went off topic. Now everyone is just having a laugh or too. Hey us old gals need some oogling too.
We all feel self concious of our bodies and we are the most critical. That dress in my profile looked okay when I put it on but it did make me look heavier than I actually was. So, I altered it to compliment my figure instead of hiding it. Best decision I ever made. I think it comes down to how we feel about ourselves and no one has the right to criticise us about our bodies.
Well, it goes both ways as one of the guys said some women would only date men that had perfect bodies. Its certainly not a fair world but fortunately there are some good people that aren't that shallow.
Too overweight to date?
Not true, you just need to find the right woman to love.