Oh still in contact with him. He called me Christmas Eve to say Hi but haven't heard from him since. If he wants to see me in the New Year, the fine; if not life goes on.
Yes there is as we seem to get set in our ways as we get older. I am trying not to be that way and trying to enlighten myself with some self discovery. I can also accept that I may never find the right one but my life will still go on regardless.
Agreed, but you were saying we weren't being the people we should be which I disagreed with. I am just saying its not easy to find that right person when there are so many obstacles to overcome.
I disagree. You have to take in account our changing society. It isn't simple as just falling in love anymore; its the vast amount of baggage people carry with them. It also about what we are looking for. Me, for instance I won't be with a chauvanistic guy and I am surrounded by them here. I am also a strong independent woman which scares most of you men away. I can't make a relationship work if a man won't even give me a chance because of fear. How does one get it accross that I am not a threat to them but an asset? I am not going to change who I am just to make a guy happy as how will I ever be happy?
Well I have dated these good looking men with great looking bodies that were complete and utter jerks. So, I look at men very differently than I did when I was 19. I think as we get older we are wiser in picking our partners. We aren't the shallow kids we once were and we are looking for someone that you can do things with; not just looks good on your arm. However, there are those that still are stuck on the looks and that is certainly their choice. I am more practical.
Yes, but the physical bonding was the kindess in their eyes or the way they smiled; it certainly wasn't their body or pefect face. That last guy I dated had rotten teeth, overweight, and looked 10 years older than he actually was but he had a twinkle in his eyes that attracted him to me.
I am sorry to hear that. A guy did that to me back in August; just broke off the relationship for now reason. Just know you deserve better and someone that truly loves you will stand by you no matter what. My thoughts and hopes are with you for a wonderful new year and a new love.
Thanks so much. I had a rough year with losing my job, being dumped, and my bike breaking down. If I had a dog that ran away, I could have written a great country song. Now at least I have a job, just have the work on the other two problems.
Well thank you kindly for the compliments. I have travelled to many places in the States and have always found Americans to be quite friendly eventhough they tease my when I say "ay" alot. All in good fun though.
Happy New Year to you to although I am still six hours away from midnight. Right now the roads are so bad, we have a police warning to stay off the roads, so just sitting at home alone for New Year, but at least I am staying warm.
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Now at least I have a job, just have the work on the other two problems.
RE: Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
I don't think any of us ever forget just as long as we can learn from it and not hold a grudge.