I guess I have an equiring mind. As most of the ladies have been commenting, maybe he is just messed up and there is no logical answer to his behavoir.
Some Stats I just found the top ten reasons for accidents as done by a study at Harvard University.
1. Cell phone use – Harvard University conducted a study that indicated that individuals using cell phones caused 200 deaths and millions of accident related injures. These drivers are four times more likely to cause an accident.
2. Changing CD/Radio
3. Eating in the car – applying make-up, reading and eating
4. Rubbernecking – despite what most people might think,
5. Drinking and driving
6. Drug use
7. Driver Distraction – kids, animals and construction sites often distract individuals as much as any cell phone or car accidents we see.
8. Speeding
9. Recklessness – some people adopt a willful disregard for the traffic regulations that make our roads safer.
10. Shoddy road maintenance
And people wonder why I like to cycle on the bike paths?
I agree with that. I turn my cell phone off in the car and only put in on when I am pulled over or out of the car. I have had too many close calls with cell phone drivers wandering in two lanes. I hear the hands free system might work.
Well, I was with just a friend and what did he want me to do? Sit at home and cry over him? He wasn't worth it. He said he hated me and even yelled at me. My response was that I wished him well and that he have a happy life. I was the one dumped but I don't have any anger towards him. Just wish he wouldn't be so angry with me that he can't even talk to me as an adult about the business we are both in. Seems childish to me.
The irony was he was the first to say he loved me. Upon parting he did say he was seeking help but I doubt he got it. I think he said that initially to soften the blow. The whole thing puzzled me. I never thought about the abusive angle just figured he was screwed up. Thanks for your thoughts.
The military taught me well. Still can't figure why he is pissed off at me. I eventually had to find a new sponser for my business as its hard to get any advice from an angry man.
Never thought of it that way. I never told him about my military friend, a friend of his saw us together and he assumed I was dating another man. However, I wasn't going to explain myself to me. Thanks for your insight.
Met a guy and dated him for 6 months. Said he loved me and wanted a relationship. I was a tad hesitant but what the heck and said yes. Then one day back in August, he says he doesn't want the relationship but has assured me I did nothing wrong, so a bit puzzling but whatever. I was hurt, mentioned it on facebook; and a military friend of mine took me out for drinks to cheer me up. Had to talk with the ex as he was my sponser for my business and he was pissed off that I was with another guy. Said he hated me and never wanted to see me again. Never thought anymore of it but then found out about 3 weeks ago he is viewing my profile. So my question is 1)he dumped me so why should he care if I am with someone else, and 2) he hates me so why look at my profile. Any opinions as I just don't get it.
My ex-boyfriend still hates me.