Well, I worked hard for what I have and I will fight to keep what I have earned. Also, the chances the theif will take what he wants and kill you anyways always sits on my mind. I am not going down without a fight.
Wow, must be nice to live that way. I have bars on my windows, have locks on my yard gates, double locks on my windows, a break down bar on my front door, and the house fully alarmed. I don't live in fear now with all that. I even keep my billy club and handcuffs close by in case someone does manage to break in. Sad that we have to live like that but at least I am safe.
Haven't moved there yet. I putting the house up for sale in April. I want to move to the Island. It is breath taking there and lving right by the ocean; I could go fishing every day. Not to mention, I can cycle all year round as no snow. Its my idea of heaven.
I can't speak for xxfrecklesxx but guys aren't attracted to my personality, they would only know that once I got to talk to him. So, how do I get him to notice me enough to talk to hime?
I agree with you' no one has a right to pass judgement on anyone. If a man isn't interested, then just say so. Thought it unecessary that all three men had to make that nasty comment. Yeah they are blocked via email and out of mind. We live in a nasty world don't we.
Man I batting a thousand this week. First I get called fat and now I am ugly? Thats it, I'm going drinking. Better yet, get some guy drunk and I will look thin and beautiful.
Whats wrong with trying to get more male attention? If it gets me a date, I would change my hair colour to whatever works in my favour. However, it doesn't change the person I am. I would still treat any man with respect.
Thanks for the kind words. I realized what those three men said was just silly. Just took me off guard when they said that. So, I do feel good about myself and if these men can't realize that, its their problem not mine.
Thanks; just surprised that not one but three different men said that. I didn't think I was fat but it bothered me just the same. I do feel good about myself and enjoy wroking out daily to keep my weight down.
I will keep that in mind the next time a guy calls me fat. I would never lose weight for any man, I do it for my health. I realize all three of these guys were nothing more than low life jerks, so I shouldn't take it personally. Thanks for your kind words.
So true. Those women wouldn't know how to treat a good man. I see those types in the bars too. They snub the guys, turn them down for dances because they aren't good looking enough. Don't know if I will meet anyone but I intend to treat him like gold.
I agree. I just want a man to accept me for who I am. I am not perfect but I thought I looked okay for my age. Guess I just have to consider the source it came from.
Nope not a joke. Got told this by three different guys. I was surprised actually that they thought that way. You are right, its whats in someone's heart that matters.
Well aren't you a darling. I am moving slightly closer to your location and will be living by the ocean, so its a start. I may just show up on your front doorstep one day. Been to California a few times with the Navy and thoroughly enjoyed it.
No, you are right. I won't put up with those comments from anyone. Just makes wonder what kind of people are out there but I found many good people here on CS that have really made me feel good about myself.
Only doing 20 pound curls and 60 pound barbells so nothing too heavy. I did have to wrestle my 100 pound punching bag to my basement so that was interesting.
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Too overweight to date?
No worries. I will just have to come there and kick some butt but I will do it gently.