I agree. I stepped it up by taking up kick boxing. May have overdone it this morning though as feeling a tad sore. Any tips for good abs? Still struggling with that.
Well, I have to disagree that you are fat; not by a long shot. However if you are worried about drowning, I am a good strong swimmer and I know how to give mouth to mouth. I will keep you safe my dear.
Oh aren't you sweet. Going to make me blush. Don't even know what to say to that. Wish you were one of the locals here; no I wouldn't be alone tonight.
Thank you very much. Never thought it as control but a personal preference. I can accept if a man is not attracted to me but calling me fat was just nasty. No, I won't let these idiots put me off my stride; just makes me more self-assured that I wouldn't want to date these guys anyways.
Thanks sweetie. Its the locals here giving me grief. I was shocked and a bit hurt by what they said. The people on this thread have been terrific so I am feeling a whole lot better.
Thanks for the kind comment. I thought I looked okay too so I was surprised when they called me fat. Made me wonder how thin must one be to be accepted. I do feel good about myself and I am continuing to work out daily so I should consider the source it came from which personally wasn't very much. Thanks again.
Thanks for the kind compliments; really making me blush. I can understan about not wanting somone obese. My main concern for someone obese though are the health issues arising from being obese. My health is the main reason I work out but if a man appreciates how I look, then that is a wonderful bonus.
I hear you. I know of women here that are the same when it comes to men. They have to have the perfect body of they won't date the guy. Seems very sad that people are like that. I am sorry to hear that girl didn't see the you for who you are. Hey, if I was 25 years younger, I wouldn't let you get away. Good luck to you and I do hope you find someone that truly deserves you.
Congrats on losing 30 pounds. That is quite the accomplishment especially with kids and a thyroid problem. I am really impressed. Yeah, I have to admit its nice when men stare at me. Makes me feel pretty good. Thanks for the kind words and you too keep up the good work.
Yes, the media does portray that if you are thin, you will have the world. I think less advertising for diet products and more advertising for eating sensibly and exercise is needed. Too many ladies have died of anorexia and bulemia because of this hype. I think the main thing is to be happy with who we are and if you don't like the someone looks, just keep it to yourself. No need to hurt others about their weight or anything else for that matter.
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Oops, am I being bad again. 
Too overweight to date?
Anything for a good looking man like you cutie.