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Too overweight to date?

I would seriously suggest weight training as it boosts your metabolism and burns off the fat. Just do light dumbells. Good luck with your goal.

Too overweight to date?

Well, you hit the nail on the head; they were young girls. I certainly wouldn't have been offended by a young guy making that comment but was surprised to hear a guy my age made that comment. Looking at your profile, I don't see where they get fat from but what do the young ones know anyways. I guess it boils down to being who we are and if others don't like it, then its their problem. hug

Too overweight to date?

I don't go by pounds but rather how one looks to me. Weight can be decieving.

Too overweight to date?

Okay, looked at your profile. You don't look like you need to lose weight at all. Not sure what a size 14UK compares to a 14 USA. About two years ago, I was a size 22US because of my car accident; couldn't move. I am now a size 12US so I know that isn't too large of a size.

Too overweight to date?

Ah, you are a cutie to me. grin

Too overweight to date?

Thanks, I appreciate that. I thought I was doing well until I read the comments from him but it wasn't just him. There were a few others that made the same comment about my weight, so got me thinking about it. cheers

Too overweight to date?

Yes, I have seen those guidelines myself and could not possibly meet them. I am 5'8" to start with, cycle a lot and do weight training. I personally don't weigh myself but rather measure by inches or how my clothes fit. I tried to follow those charts and you could count my ribs as I literaly was starving myself to meet the weight they suggest. Now, I focus on just being healthy and ignore the pounds.

Too overweight to date?

I think you are right that he was looking for swimsuit model and realistically at my age, that seems a tad far fetched. The important thing to me is to stay healthy, so not going to starve myself to make him happy. I agree, he could have worded it a little kinder to me rather than just saying I was fat. Thanks again for the kind words. That really makes me feel better about myself as I must say it was a shock to hear hime say that to me.

Too overweight to date?

As I was saying to Ambrose to each his own and if you aren't comfortable dating someone who does carry more weight than they should, I would not sit in judgement. I was just curious as to how one puts a person's weight into perspective when dating. It just really threw off when I got those comments said to me.

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Too overweight to date?

Nope those picturs are of me; taken in January. I actually have increased my workouts since then. So, this is why I was surprised by their reaction. Just chaulk it up to each his own I guess. And thanks for your kind comments about my physical shape. Kind of hurting this morning from my workout but to me its worthwhile. teddybear

Too overweight to date?

What do you mean when I am old? I am already old. blues

Too overweight to date?

Thanks for the kind words. That is my goal to be and stay fit. hug

Too overweight to date?

Actually I was told this within the last two weeks that I was too fat to date. I agree a few extra pounds certainly would not affect my decision on dating someone. Would rather have a few extra pounds rather than someone making themselves sick to stay thin. handshake

Too overweight to date?

Yes, I draw the line when a man can't bend over and tie his shoes. laugh A guy that has a few pounds overweight is alright with as you pointed out, we aren't young anymore and I certainly don't expect him to be the same weight he was 19.
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RE: THE DIFFERENCE WHEN YOU MARRY A CANADIAN GIRL

Us Canadian girls are just so misunderstood. rolling on the floor laughing

RE: These are the moments when u need a man in u house

Absolutely. I learned by reading books, internet, or just asking my males friends to show me how I can do things for myself. Its a great feeling to be able to do things for yourself and my house looks great with the renos I did. yay

Too overweight to date?

I am curious as to what being too overweight too date. A few guys have told me I was too fat (exact words) to date. This surprised me as I really didn't think I looked that bad. Now, not saying I shouldn't lose a few more pounds but never considered myself fat. So my question is would you date someone overweight or is weight just not a factor in dating? Also what do you consider overweight?

RE: ahhh there's the problem right there .

We have no nukes here so you are safe. Well, I wanted to thin out the population, I would arm wrestle.

RE: JUST LOOK FOR AN HONEST WOMAN

Oh, I didn't know you were such a light weight when it came to drinking. Guess I will have to train you how to drink.drinking

RE: ahhh there's the problem right there .

When you figure it out, let me know. yay

RE: Do you want to be in heaven?

Oh, you are naughty. Sounds like my kind of man. wink

RE: HeLLo

Welcome Zehra. Sorry to hear you lost your guy. Just join us here in the forums to have some fun and make new friends. handshake

RE: Searching a true soul mate...

Yep, that is why we are here. dancing

RE: Searching a true soul mate...

No, not being negative. I am a positive person and if I meet someone here then great, but I also have to realistic about this too. I have met some wonderful people on here but being as far away as they are, what are the chances of me ever meeting these people? So, don't take my comment as being negative. I am quite happy with my life and all it has to offer. teddybear

RE: Searching a true soul mate...

I think he is just the curious type.

RE: new to the site and online dating world!

I would like to see that but then again I am not quite the shy type. wink

RE: Searching a true soul mate...

Met a lot of new friends online and had lots of laughs. Soulmate? Realistically, no I don't think I will meet my soulmate but what have I got to lose.

RE: new to the site and online dating world!

Yep, so do you care to bear your soul? grin

RE: new to the site and online dating world!

Hi Ryan. Welcome to CS. Come join in on the forums. You will meet some great people and have lots of laughs. cswelcome

RE: LOVE REALLY HURTS

Oh, that is too funny. Thanks for the chuckle.

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