turn ons--- tall women, long hair, eyes, great smile, motivated, ohio state fan (lol), peirced naval, tatoo on small of back, tanned, blonde (lol), brunnette, redhead,
turn offs--- overly obese ( a little thickness isn't bad), lazyness, poor hygeine, overly tatooed and pierced, fakeness, lack of intelligence, stuck on themselves
don't get me wrong ladies, i like short girls too!! lol
ok ladies i want some feedback what kind of man do you want, looks not being an option. i want to know what qualities you would want in a man. i'm talking about the kind of guy you would want to spend the rest of your life with, not one night. come on, get at me!!!!!!
I feel I am. I have been out of the dating scene untill a couple months back. I have been single for almost 2 yrs. I was with my ex for over three yrs, planning to marry once she got her degree. She left me. I treated her like gold, did anything possible, gave her space when she needed it, supported her goals/ hopes/ desires/ ect... I took it very hard. I hung on to the hope we would be back together, but I was wrong there. I had so many doubts about myself, that i couldn't get back in the saddle. I have had a handfull of dates the last few months, but I don't know where or when I'll find that one that makes my heart skip a beat. I finally realized who I am, and what I have to offer. SO GUESS WHAT LADIES, I'M BACK!!!!!!!!!!
Don't put up with it man. You shouldn't have too. It's good you're not a hurtfull person, and you shouldn't have to get hurt because of your good nature. Kick her to the curb bro.
I thought I had found her, but I was wrong obviously. Two yrs later I am still searching. I have a few intrests, but I don't know what'll come, if anything. I haven't had alot of luck you could say. My last relationship was over three yrs in length. Before that, maybe a month or two. I treat them good, maybe too good. I'm always the cheated, not the cheater. My recent ex had me all screwed up when we split. I spent a lot of time alone, or drinking, or somewhere. It took me over a yr at least to really get past her, but I don't know if I'll ever be completely. The one thing that'll never leave is the feelings I had. I mean by that, the closeness, content, love, all the good things you feel when you have a special someone. I yearn to find someone so I can experience those feelings again. I hope that day comes sooner not later
i couldn't really be able to take a guess on this one. a lot of people aren't so honest as others. i am upfront about myself, and i expect the same. chemistry plays a big part as well. go with what your heart tells you, it will pay off in the long run
a pefrect night, that has a lot of different factors. i guess it depends on the atmosphere. a great night can be at home, a resturant, a night club, the park,ect... as long as the time spent w/ that special someone is memoralble, it doesn't matter where the two of you are
my outgoing personality. i am the go to guy when someone needs something. my love for friends & family. my values & morals. my love for sports, mainly football.
I would have to say skeptical. I have been burned numerous times. I always try to keep myself from jumping in too fast. The possibility of getting burned again is always there in the back of my mind.
sorry to hear that, cheer up. it will get better. i am fortunate, i have a lot of people who care about me, and are there at a moments notice. there are times when i want to be alone to sort things out. don't be afraid to talk to someone, it helps. talk to god, he has many ways that he answers our prayers
Know what you mean. I too usually wind up dating blondes. I don't look necessarily for blondes, that's just what I usually get hooked up with. I've dated brunnettes and redheads, but the majority has been blondes.
It's more of a trophy thing. The want to flaunt some tiny thing around and be like " ha ha look what I got". I like a girl that's not huge (no offense intened). A couple extra pounds is ok. If the guy doesn't like you for YOU, then leave him. If he's trying to change you for his taste, he should look for that and not try to change you. If you want to lose weight, that's great. Don't do it to please someone else, do it for you.
There are good men left. I am one, and damn proud to be one!!!! I know what you mean agoodblkwoman, when you say you get played. I am always the playee, not the player. I can't explain why men do it, or women for that matter. My parents' 20th anniversary is upcoming, and an aunt& uncle just celebrated 50yrs together. People just don't look at things the way they used to. Commitment used to mean something, I know it does to me.
The best date I ever had was probably the first date with my ex fiance. When ever I looked into her eyes I saw something special. I wanted to kiss her the first time I looked into those eyes. We're not together now, but I can still remember it like it was yesterday. She left me for someone less than myself. I can't lie, I miss the way I felt when we were together, but I can't do anything about it. I still press on full speed in search of the "one", that is if she's out there.
I'm not trying to say I am god's gift to women, if that's how you've taken it. I am trying to say I am a good guy, not a cheat/ liar/ abuser. I believe a woman should be treated right. That's what I mean when I say I am the type of guy a woman wants.
I am the type of guy that women say they want, but they say doesn't exist. I am so baffled when I see a woman stay with a guy, and he treats her like sh/.,,":"t. I hear all the time that all guys are the same. No, we're not all bad. I believe some women are so decieved by their man, that they actually believe some of the things. Like, I can't do any better, oh I'm too big, too ugly. Stupid things like that just for a few examples. Some are scared of what may happen if they leave the guy, is he gonna beat me. Any guy who does these types of things, aren't men. I've seen it more instances than I can believe. I think a lot of women should rethink what's going on in those relationships and get out of them asap.
alot of guys now days are after one thing. they focus on that more than anything else. if they believe that they can get away with it, then it is ok. i am a guy, i know how we think. i am not that type of guy, but i know many who do think that way. most men believe if they get what they're after, then who cares. i think that that is why guys like myself have such a tough time finding someone. i've never cheated. i've never led someone on and left when i got it. i've wanted to have a family someday, and i won't get this if i act like that. remember, not all guys are like that.
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RE: The "Gentlemanly Thing To Do"
dpw is right. I'm 26, but I am old-school. The russian scam is true, along with other countries too.