I posted to that thread, and my answer was pretty much cut & dry, as it will be now--again. I feel that there is nothing wrong with having/seeking online friends while being married. However, I don't agree that it would be proper to go to a "dating site" to make "friends" while being married. That's *my* opinion.
RE: everyday wisdom
A real man doesn't make love to a million women. A real man makes love to one woman a million ways...