Once upon a time, I have felt this way-yes. However, that was "then"...
Now I don't see any problem whatsoever here, as long as you both are honest with each other. What you do for a living and what he does for a living is really not (or shouldn't be) an issue at all!
The main factor in this situation is accepting each other for who you are, on the inside & the outside...not an occupation! If he accepts you for "you", and vice/versa, then that's all that matters!
Communication is the key! I wish you the very best of luck!
No, you are not the only person fed up with extended family. However, even still, I go to the family Christmas gathering anyway--despite my feelings. I would not have lied. But the fact that you did was your choice, and I've no right to judge you whatsoever.
At any rate, I do wish you & yours a wonderful Christmas & a fantastic New Year!
RE: Is there anyone on CS you would really like to meet?
Huh?