The current events put me in a spot even though I felt sad about letting go but I had no choice.
I have no regrets and I will always remember the laughs we shared, and the fun and I won't dwell on the bad times cause the good times do out weigh the bad.
It's doesn't matter who was wrong or right or who said or did what.
So glad you decided to post a pic of youreself. I don't know what you were shy about putting up a picture of yourself cause I just now did a double take when I saw your pic.
You're a very handsome looking man.
I don't know why you felt like you were very much out classed and not really enthusiastic anymore as your chances of succeeding suddenly dropped.
I don't know if I"m the only one, but guys pursuing me becomes very mundane. Sure, I like the compliments, but it's not enough to cause me to be attracted and I can lose interest easily.
I take much pleasure in making the first move or pursuing a man that might take a little work...
Sure, people might think it's desperate or maybe I'm not getting anything as to why I would rather make the first move and be forced to "work for something", but it's just that I find all the guys hitting on me and putting me on a pedestal to be unexciting.
I had to just recently end a friendship because the person wanted alot more then friendship which I felt I wasn't up to giving them right now.
They also became overbearing and it was like they were trying to pressure me into making a commintment.
They also threw up in my face the fact that I hadn't defended them in a bad situation even though there was proof they were in the wrong. They were trying to make me feel guilty which caused me to become defensive and the breakup of the friendship became very heated.
Right now I feel sad about what I had to do but I saw no other way out of this.
They also admitted to some things which I had no knowledge of or reconigzed right away. I guess I was going through the grieving process that I was to blind to see the signs. It's like that person was taking advantage of my weakness.Then some recent things began taking place so I decided to break off this friendship for my own well being.
A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.
A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.
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RE: Are u single or very single?
Thank You Indy.