Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much? ( Archived) (17)

Sep 26, 2008 10:27 AM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
Drummerguy
DrummerguyDrummerguyGallatin, Tennessee USA12 Threads 1 Polls 26 Posts
How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
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Sep 26, 2008 10:29 AM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
sounds like stalking, to me!!dunno
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Sep 26, 2008 10:41 AM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop.


I believe that's what humans are given a language for.

IMO, some persistance is always nice, but if you really want to see some success, try at least changing something (to get the lady interested). Otherwise, if she does give you a chance and sees "same old" again, I doubt she'll want to bother any further. At least I wouldn't, but these are only my own speculations about the subject.
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Sep 26, 2008 12:16 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Play it out and see what happens....if he pushes too much he will push her in the other direction..........sounds like they could be needy men to me.....grin
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Sep 26, 2008 12:49 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?


Sounds like he's bashing you over the head
with a club and dragging you back to the cave!


Most of us have evolved from this type of pursuit
and find it offensive.

Contary to the belief of some,
when a woman says stop,
most really do mean stop!

I don't like it.



wave devil
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Sep 26, 2008 1:42 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
I pursue no one.

She say hi....I say hi

She says hi again...I say hi again

She says good bye...I say good bye






End of relationship!! Life is not complicatedprofessor
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Sep 26, 2008 1:46 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I have never been relentlessy pursued.

I say no thanks and bye, usually works for me.
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Sep 26, 2008 1:49 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
It reminds me of stalking.
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Sep 26, 2008 2:02 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I can see how stalking would be upsetting, because I have never suffered it, but then I would terrify them, so they would be scared of stalking me, I am not very big, but I have a mouth the size of the Watford Gap and a few choice words and I would not see them for dust.
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Sep 26, 2008 3:12 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
xoredheadxo
xoredheadxoxoredheadxoMorgantown, West Virginia USA14 Threads 1,179 Posts
There's a very fine line between pursuing and stalking.
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Sep 26, 2008 3:12 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
LACali
LACaliLACaliSouthern California, California USA3 Threads 936 Posts
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?


When she files a restraining order.
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Sep 26, 2008 3:12 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?



When she says no...and you continue...that crosses the line to stalking....thumbs up
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Sep 26, 2008 3:14 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I have no problem saying 'yes' or 'no'. I'm not nice when pushed,so....... i'm sure stalkers would not like me much.



roll eyes
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Sep 26, 2008 3:15 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
LACali: When she files a restraining order.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Great answer!!! Maybe they'll take the hint then!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Sep 26, 2008 3:30 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
When you Rack up at her Place with Handcuffs and Leg-Irons?dunno confused






rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 26, 2008 3:33 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
kayrachelle
kayrachellekayrachelleElkhart, Indiana USA1 Threads 84 Posts
shipoker58: sounds like stalking, to me!!


agreed.
i mean, it is nice to be pursued.
very true.
but i am not going to be with a guy
that just doesnt let up.
sometimes you have got to let us girls breathe.
aggressive isnt always the best route to take.
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Sep 26, 2008 4:04 PM CST Aggressive pursuit? When is some too much?
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
if she tells you to stop..........and you continue.........you've crossed the line into "too much" territory



















and taken your life into your own handsdevil
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