How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop.
I believe that's what humans are given a language for.
IMO, some persistance is always nice, but if you really want to see some success, try at least changing something (to get the lady interested). Otherwise, if she does give you a chance and sees "same old" again, I doubt she'll want to bother any further. At least I wouldn't, but these are only my own speculations about the subject.
Play it out and see what happens....if he pushes too much he will push her in the other direction..........sounds like they could be needy men to me.....
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
Sounds like he's bashing you over the head with a club and dragging you back to the cave!
Most of us have evolved from this type of pursuit and find it offensive.
Contary to the belief of some, when a woman says stop, most really do mean stop!
I can see how stalking would be upsetting, because I have never suffered it, but then I would terrify them, so they would be scared of stalking me, I am not very big, but I have a mouth the size of the Watford Gap and a few choice words and I would not see them for dust.
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
When she says no...and you continue...that crosses the line to stalking....
Drummerguy: How many women like that kind of thing, where they are chased and courted and the guy just won't stop. It's the kind of pursuit that YOU like, but when does it become TOO much?
When you Rack up at her Place with Handcuffs and Leg-Irons?
agreed. i mean, it is nice to be pursued. very true. but i am not going to be with a guy that just doesnt let up. sometimes you have got to let us girls breathe. aggressive isnt always the best route to take.
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